BrUtUs SG it is possible for guy to just go for normal massage.... if he want to cheat u whether is pure or not pure u cant prevent it... dun think too much...
100% SG Join us a SPA membership or something with him.. at least you know where he’s going is clean and you 2 can enjoy the facilities and go for massage together.
dcx SG Simple....meet him up after his massage...n if you've already "given" to him...y not test him to see how he perform during ur session??
_Aaron_ SG I think its a matter of trust... If you trust him to do it without going for those extra services, Then do it. But if you feel uncomfortable somehow, then accompany him, Or like what Devil said, do the massage yourself! Its a matter of trust.
Devil1976 SG Not wise to do such 'test' as stress and tiredness can also affect a man's performance.... Don't give misunderstanding and distrust a chance to grow on nothing.....
juz_A_gal SG gals think alot. no need to do such "test".. observe can already. heehee.. but yeah, there's a stigma in me already. i can't help it. i'm sorry. if he wants to cheat then i guess there's nothing i can do except wait to find out, or for him to come clean. i hope i'm just being paranoid. for now i'll just trust him. but if.. and i say IF... he does turn out to be unfaithful then........ wonder wat i'll do..........
dcx SG It's all up to you...hope everything'll be fine... (Dunno if this's true or not...gals tend to actually prefer to be hidden in the dark of such things...meaning to say, "if you wanna do it, it's alright with me but dun let me know/find out"....something like that...)
juzded SG If you already started to feel uneasy about your BF going for massage then I suggest you go with him where both of you can have the massage together, you get what I mean? If he ask you why? Just tell him that your body needs some massage or your body needs to relax etc. just give him some good excuses for that Sometimes, it's best for you to go there with him and be honest with him of how and what you feel about it because guys don't really know what we woman think feel about it, they can't read our mind Yes, I admit that some guys go there to have extra pleasure after the massage, not single guys but married guys also love that kind of pleasure, some might go overseas to have it, well good luck
sneezy SG put one box of condoms in his pocket or bag… see how is his reaction. For sure he will ask you.. then you tell him.. if you wan to flirt outside… rem to do it safely
p1ll0w SG Haaaa speaking of massage, can i hijack the thread abit??? Me needed a good long over due massage liao...anyone knows KL well to intro some good and proper one??? Its cheaper over in KL and i am going there over the weekend Ok release the thread back
juz_A_gal SG give him condom so he can go fool ard with my permission?!?!?!?! kaoz. no way sia!!!~ i still think that cheating is the worst thing u can do to ur partner in a r/s. i trust my guy enough not to go for a medical checkup. my worry is that he'll run away..... that i'm not good enough for him... that he lands up being with me "for the sake of it" - and not because he loves me... gosh.. wat kind of thoughts are these on v-day?! argh...
