StarPuppy SG Some know of my story...maybe u all look at my previous threads.... Just before sch break....I argued with her and it went off quite horribly....first time i scolded....den over the holidays...i learn to forgive and forget and ALSO to let go...I now have 0 feelings for her but only as a friend but today when i went back to sch...as i had to face her during history lesson....for some reason...i still look away when she glances at me or i can't face her direction...whats wrong?? I learned to let her go...but now the thing is i dunno why when i look at her..eye-contact...i will look away....All i want is to resume like normal classmates where i can look her in the eye and not feel awkard or anything..... Any advice ppl?
Ito_^ SG do nothing, dun force yrself to forget or wadever. let nature take its path, isn't it better?
StarPuppy SG then suffer somemore...i wasted 3 years pursing her, got nothing but pain...and its affecting my studies...
Ito_^ SG persistently chasing her isn't natural. nor is trying to force yrself into forgetting. now probably isn't the best time but studies isn't everything. dats wad i think la.
dcx SG haha...since you've 0 feelings for her...y bother abt so much? As a matter of fact...u still hve a certain amount % of feelings for her...no need to lie to yourself or any of us to make it feel comfortable... Let nature takes its course while you're striving hard for your studies....."shun qi zhi ran"....."boat reached bridgehead automatically straight'....
StarPuppy SG I only got feelings but as frens only...all along i am the one who was "yi xiang qing yen" so i decide to let go.....but the thing is the awkardness is still there...the awkardness of not saying sorry for my part....but haiz
dcx SG haha...simple.....juz say sorry to her n explain what you've to explain....leave nothing behind..settled.
StarPuppy SG I knew i was the one in the wrong but i blew it up because i wanted her to hate me so that it would be easier to me to forget her
dcx SG Tell me for what......tell her lah......she needs to know...i dun need to know.... What you wanna say to me/us, say to her.....by telling us, things will stay remain.....never going to change..
Ito_^ SG den u gotta bear this ackwardness forever and ever and ever. amen. too bad. regret! its life, there are always regrets. besides, if u are so honest, wld she really forgive you? some forms of "ackwardness" will still persist.
smudgey SG by this statement alone i can see that you are not totally over her. don't force yourself to get over her. as u said u liked her for 3 yrs and 3 yrs worth of feelings will not be easily shake off over the holidays... i once took about a yr to get over a guy i liked... see him every sat & sunday.... but still took a yr.... take your time.... let nature/time heal.
BadzMaro SG Yo Starpups.. find new target. Concentrate on ur studies. If u flunk.. u get no job..no money..no girls for u... dont because of a girl ruin urself k. Just give her a smile or something. What if she is at everyplace u like to go ? are u gonna avoid her forever n feel the awkwardness ? making urself unable to enjoy urself ?.... man its natural man..just try to forget.. find target.. smile.. n study...OH try to party hard too...
rainee SG at first of cos will be awkward one, last time when I just broke up with my ex oso like dat…but as time goes by, the feeling of awkwardness will go away…
WoShiNoobie SG Conflicted, you are... You must learn how to set your priorities right... if you can't look her straight in the eye, so be it. You still have all the time in the world...
chong-ster SG this is normal... i still dont dare to look at my ex whenever i talk to her face to face even though i miss her terribly i cant explain it too its a lil' awkward + sad + angry + lost feeling haha
