bro, no need to rid yourself of guilt, who no guilt. Your ex is
happy now. so try to leave her alone, that is the best way to repay
your guilt. unless you know she is not happy, then you wait quietly
for her to breakup, don be the 3rd party now.
hatred for the 3rd party? you want to revenged? how? give nuisance
call? hang pig-head? vandalize her wall? what the point? it is
illegal plus evils begets evil, just suck thumbs, learn from
mistake and convinced yourself that the guy she is with now is
toying with her.. you will feel better, trust me.
tell you guys somthing about love. they say love is,
when you are walking in a garden, you cant turn back, you can only
move forwarded. you can only pick 1 flower. The flower name is
called LOVE, so the deliema is, 'how you know whether that is the
right one for you? what if you come across a better one and latter
found out it is not the one?'you cant go back anymore, what if you
cant find a better one?'
so the morale is treasure with what you have, love can be
cultivated, be contended.Do not despair,there is consolation for
you, the only consolation is that you can choose your flower again.

you want to regain your self confidence?the most easy out of the
3.
I am on my way to gain self confidence. tell you how i do it, there
are a couple of ways.
1) look more handsome, can go for contact lens, new haircut,braces,
just make yourself handsome. so that you can walk with confidence
and you will know girls will peep at you. After that, girls will
peep at you whenever you walk passed, each peep will add to your
confidence, trust me.
2)give a boost to your career, accomplished a good career. guys
will get jealous and envious, you will have more friends, female
colleaques will strat to view you different. of course including a
vehicle of your own.
my plan is go for one, then two. AS a better appearance will help
in career. all female colleaques will be at your feet and you can
have what you want, whether it is in love or in career.
human are superficial, make use of that point.