i read with amusement cus we are all pretending to be saints.
Believe me, we are all biologically the same lah.
men go for pretty women
women go for cute men.
its how we are made. Shallow. We say others but we are all the
same.
the difference is whether we are willing to take the risk, go
beyond what we see and give the fella (usually the ugly one) a
chance.
if looks bother you...it will always bother you. dun deny it and
think u can be a saint. the reason why u are in a struggle becus
her character, no matter how good does not give u a reason enuff to
wanna accept her. what scares me is your intention to change her.
Love is about accepting the person as a whole package....just as
she does about you....
you do not love her. What you love is her undivided attention, her
dedication towards you. Its all about YOU YOU YOU.
Love is about the other person. Not about SELF.
Pls spare the gal the torture and hurt.
and yourself that guilt later...cus sooner or later, you are going
to that her looks still bother you.
lastly, grow up, boy!
