dear fren... the way u put it, at
least to me, is that this gal really likes u a lot... imagine the
hurt u wld have caused her if say u suddenly back out from the trip
or that nothing works out between the 2 of u... i wldnt have said
anything if both of u r already in a r/s already...
there's more than 1 way to cheer a person up, console someone...
unless u r genuinely interested and have the intention to start a
r/s with this gal, saying smthing like that might lead to giving
her the wrong impression that u r reciprocating her love...
well, as for the trip... try not to do anything "foolish" or "in a
moment of passion" lest u risk losing her friendship as well... gd
luck yah? 