FAlll IN love with a Girl with BF

123456890 SG

WHy is it always someone who dun make sense being label as a kid? So making me feel a kid makes u mature? Some adults can be more immature than a kid. Anyway whatever. I really dun see what use the bf has since she's the one always going out with u. Most probably the bf's watching soccer or hanging out with his pig friends. Girls are selfish too, they also want what they desire. Love, money or whatever, as long as u can give it to her. Go ahead and snatch her from her bf.

123456890 SG

Love is a choice, not a responsibility. If the girl loves u and u love her. Her BF can go to hell if she's only with her becos she's is her gf in name. Ask her straight in her face if she has any feelings for u, if YES...do what you must. If no, well too bad...find someone else.

BaByBoY SG

well said!

BillyBong SG

In our conservative society, guys who have feelings for attached girls are scorned as 3rd party trouble-makers.

Love is not binding until both sides find something they have both been searching for. Just because they are currently attached does not imply that the search is over. Sometimes, qualities you dun find in your current half can be readily found in another person. Break-ups are always hard just as change is always difficult.

Many couples get involved too early before maturity and common sense sets in. Call it puppy love if you will. This is a receipe for problems, especially if both sides are not open and understanding. Because the likelihood of meeting someone more suited to yourself is very high, breakups are ultimately inevitable.

What is important is you stay true to yourself. Be selfish if you have to because the person you end up with will stay with you and 'till death do we part'. Certainly no one wants to commit into such a matrimony only to regret it and divorce later.

I am not an avocator of 3rd parties. I abhore such people who openly and eagerly come between you and the one you love. As long as people know the unwritten rules: that an attached person is off-limits, then staying friends is fine. Let the other person make up their own minds. But do not coax the other into initiating a breakup. Should that happen, the person must act on his/her own without interference.

In any case, people must come to terms with their relationship. If you have done enough, then trust is what holds it together. If the other side demands more everytime, then perhaps the breakup was imminent anyway.

No one should deceive themselves on such matters. Face the facts and accept the truth.

Canavaro SG

Talk so much for what f.u.c.k lah!

If someone took your bf/gf, just find a master in Thailand and cast black magic on that i.d.i.o.t.

Very easy, just let him suffer.

I can give you contact if you want.

BillyBong SG

boorish...

starblue SG

totally.... not to mention senseles...

getting between couples isn't a moral thing to do.. if you'r eimmoral, go right ahead. i wun be the one to stop you.. Rolling Eyes

BillyBong SG

Dun think you understand.

I have friends who got into relationships too early and subsequently broke up amicably. Later on when getting hitched to someone new, they have the blessings of their ex. Their cases had nothing to do with 3rd party relationships.

They just became a little wiser and mature and realise the one they were with currently isn't the right person.

3rd parties aren't the underlying reasons couples breakup. Knowing that attached persons are off-limits is drawing the fine line. Doesn't imply you cannot be friends with them.

Oyathatsme SG

Don't ask her out for a date. Let her ask you out. From there you will know whether she loves\likes you or no.

Let her call you. Why should you call her when she's already attached since you liked her. Make her call you. You won't know how much she really likes you unless she starts asking all the questions.

Your dates are not romantic at all.

She loves you she will tell you everything.
I repeat
Everything.

Misogynist SG

okie.. i’m not the only one…

M©+square SG

The rest aint.

M©+square SG

I like the way you call him. Twisted Evil Mr. Green

Misogynist SG

Hey.. Settle it yourself.. Decision lies with you man.. No matter what we say, nothing's gonna change..

Why complicate things? It's only yes or no to whether ya gonna go for it only..

darknessfall SG

watch out! Laughing you can milk the cow but dun bring it home.. joking..

give her a time allowance...ask her for a decision...if she dun wan, then you dun take her..its like she is two-timing you and the other guy...you like this type of gal?

unless she allows you to 2-time her as well.! Razz

BaByBoY SG

just a consideration b4 u accept her...

what she did to her bf, one day might do the same back to u

are u afraid tt will happen also???

Deception SG

Rubbish…all these what you do will be done back to you are for scardy cats…there is no retribution in this world.

mercurialz SG

Originally posted by 123456890:
[b]Love is a choice, not a responsibility. If the girl loves u and u love her. Her BF can go to hell if she's only with her becos she's is her gf in name. Ask her straight in her face if she has any feelings for u, if YES...do what you must. If no, well too bad...find someone else.[/b]

that's irresponsible love... loving without showing responsiblity is utterly selfish and immature... imagine this: guy claims he luv a gal, and he chooses to luv her dearly... when they CHOOSE to do things in a moment of passion (out of LOVE), is it morally right for the guy to shirk all responsibilities?

come on, u have eyes to see for urself... girls who got impregnated, go for abortion or even desert their babies while guys juz run away...

love encompasses responsibility, and i dun mean only in bad times... if u arent prepared to shoulder responsibilities, then dun get involved in r/s... we are blessed with the power to love, and so we shall also be responsible for using it wisely and purposefully...

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