i will term such pple as "buaya"-s...
these pple who aint satisfied with a gf he had singledhandedly pick
to be his...
keep his options open is not an excuse, it's downright nonsense...
i firmly believe that if someone already has that special partner,
it's the responsibility of both parties to make it work...
i know a guy who already has a gf, but at his workplace, keep on
"hitting" on gals... he would make excuses not to have dinner with
the gf juz to go out for dinner with a female colleagues, make
excuses to sit together with female colleagues during functions
etc... it's REVOLTING...
if this guy cant settle down with juz one gal (that is, u), get rid
of him, or u might juz end up suffering...
