choco B SG I think this is true. Leave the taboo and private stuff around, condoms, underwear, etc. He may be too embarassed to go in next time.
laosu SG I assume you both dont' share the same room. Next time..just lock the doors. They want to scream at you..let them..soon they will be tired of it and get the message.
bismarck SG he will probably go " are u sure dont have ? u cannot find dun mean dun have. come, let me search" damn...i guess this is why no one gores thru my sis' stuff ...not even my mom. oui! si axel must u tell everyone waht i hide inside my room ?! what abt my porno vids ? play them on the com so he also know issit ?
laosu SG quote: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Originally posted by laosu: Oh...for me easy...I stick a note on my door stating "There's nothing in here you need" and everyone leave my room alone. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- he will probably go " are u sure dont have ? u cannot find dun mean dun have. come, let me search" I don't think they dare to say that to me. They know how bad I'll scream if they do that.
nuchio SG based on this post alone... i think you take it too personally. it is not about you, your stuff or rummaging your things. it is about him wanting to find the casing; in which if he doesnt, he may have to find a replacement of some sort. this happens to us... we lose something and keep looking for it everywhere we can think of... and end up neglecting someone else's privacy, use up another person's time etc. parents are especially guilty because they feed and clothed us and sometimes think we are obligated to pay them back (which unfortunately we are to some extent) my suggestion : do not put too much thought about it. it is over, let it be. this should not be an issue in the father-child relationship. live and let live. most of all, be happy.
tut4nkh4m3n SG agreed. you should just let this pass. parents naturally tend to be like that. they rummage thru your stuff maybe just to spot check on your belongings and see if you're up to no good. i believe there's no use getting into an arguement with them because they most probably feel they have the right to go thru your stuff even tho they may be private. these actions can really piss us off sometimes but then again, they are our parents. so just remember how you feel now and not to do this to your kids in time to come.
bismarck SG i assume this axelheat *Disclaimer * 99% of what i say is joking only... Do not take it seriously...
bismarck SG guess waht my dad told me the other day he came into my room again? he came back looking the a cover yet again. so i told him "didnt i already say no?" he replied " i came back hoping 1 day you will say yes"
chronicles SG Last time my father threw away my toy gun when i was young so i went into his cupboard and threw the remote control out of the window
Kenneth Tan Jian Wei SG Mirror his actions. Go rummage through his stuff. Who knows what gems you might unearth...
littlestream SG Maybe he likes your room and want to swap with you? But pai seh to tell you in the face so pretend to "ka-cheou, ka-cheou" so you will suggest it? And you can have his room..........with an ensuite!!!
Devil1976 SG Nobody's fault actually... Perhaps just generation gap? Some older folks just have a more different way of expressing things which the younger generation just often don't quite get it? And often, the younger generation would prefer a more straightforward way.....
laosu SG Hmmmmm...think your dad just wan some attention from you. Why don't you just get a cover for him and put it in the living room or something?