Constance SG What do ppl think abt partners of different race and nationality? will love eventually overwhelms the difference? What do u guys think?
Matthew Lim Li Hao SG Originally posted by Constance: [b]yah...cos i'm confused and wanted to hear opinions..why is that a crime? [/b]no
Constance SG I jus wanna hear opinions from different ppl so hopefully i can understand certain things in life. if everything is lame, then counsellors shld not exist at all...ppl sign up to forums to discuss problems, confusion or jus share things they think are interesting to do so. If ppl can discuss stupid things like pre marital sex, so why can't i discuss my topic?
leilan84 SG Originally posted by Constance: [b]I jus wanna hear opinions from different ppl so hopefully i can understand certain things in life. if everything is lame, then counsellors shld not exist at all...ppl sign up to forums to discuss problems, confusion or jus share things they think are interesting to do so. If ppl can discuss stupid things like pre marital sex, so why can't i discuss my topic? [/b]i'm not refering to you btw refering to dragg..... and the qn he posted
Constance SG I'm not referring to u too...i referred to dragg... ppl are jus lame to think others are lame[/b]
dragg SG ok. let's get serious. if you love someone you shouldnt be bothered by his/her race. of course ideally i would love to marry someone from my own race.
leilan84 SG not really true... the problem is, can you blend into his/her social circle? can you accept his/her religion? can you accept his/her living habit and eating behaviour?
leilan84 SG frankly speaking, i do not enjoy the fact that more and more singapore gal are becoming spg however it's their freedom.. just hope that they'll find happiness if it's even there.... most just fark and go... ask those who have been fark by ang mo before and tell me it's not true
Devil1976 SG Originally posted by Constance: [b]What do ppl think abt partners of different race and nationality? will love eventually overwhelms the difference? What do u guys think? [/b]1st thing you'll have to consider... Is 'distance' a factor in the relationship? Are you talking about 2 people in the same country, same place but of different race and nationality? Or are you talking about a Long Distance Relationship? 2nd thing... Culture... From parents... To friends and relatives... Some cultures (or more spcifically people) are more open to accepting the differences from other cultures, while some others might have very little tolerance... Some of such differences are more OBVIOUS... i.e. They'll tell you in your face, they don't like this and that... While some others need time to discover... (everything seems cool until real conflicts arises..) In any case at all, of course the 'love' in a relationship should be pretty important.... When you talk about overwhelming (I'm personally prefer to use overcoming...) the 'differences', it would depends on what 'differences' you're talking about... And... It's often not just a MOMENT of 'overwhelming'.... As in... "YES!! We've MADE IT!!!" A relationship is a constant effort and journey... And cultural differences can often come with hidden natures...
pete98 SG Originally posted by Constance: [b]What do ppl think abt partners of different race and nationality? will love eventually overwhelms the difference? What do u guys think? [/b]I am sort of wooing a lady of different race and country but I'm not sure whether love(from me) will overwhelms all. However I am bloody well going to try my best and have no regrets. Hopefully things turns up well
czechmate SG Originally posted by Constance: [b]What do ppl think abt partners of different race and nationality? will love eventually overwhelms the difference? What do u guys think? [/b]It is not uncommon for relationships even within the same race and nationality to have been ruined by the parents of either party. If you meet with strong objections from his/her parents, love alone may not be enough. The child-parent bond can be a powerful thing.
