Ya.. thats. very true.. from the victim's point of view...yes.
she wans every gal out there to be wary...but with his pic and hp
number is like way too much? It's hard to judge... coz both of u
are in a r/s in that time, he never raped u... touching each other
in a r/s is common and u didn't tell him how much is too much. He
might not know what he was doing was way too much for u. It's
common for people to deny that they are in relationship. But it
didn't mean he cheat on u. Mayb to him, he dun feel so, coz people
got different judgement of situations. U should be firm in
rejecting him when he made his advances. If u didn't tell him when
to stop, he will feel that u dun mind and make more advances. Isn't
what i saying making any sense? Doesn't happen to only guys.. it's
the same for gals... we are all humans to think that way.
Please dun think that i am siding him, but i'm a gal also.. i
understand how u feel.. but as an outsider, i felt both are at
fault. Both of u are too young to handle such situations. Even a 20
something might not be able to react in a sensible way.. Dun say a
17 year old guy, mayb even 40 something man will have affairs..
thats just the ugly side of temptations. It's whether we allow
ourselves to fall into it.
