ATTENTION:HE CHEATED MY FEELINGS

last SG · 2005-05-12T04:01:24+00:00

people can act act one mah. i think if the guy admitted he got 2 ex gf, including the victim, then understandable. but he never. he like erase off this incid...

victimgal SG

It was only our second date. And he already tried all sorts of ways to get into my pants. I rejected his advences in the cinema amny times but he just kept trying. Yes, i know I was in a relationship, but in any relationship there should be respect for each other. He had no respect for me. And to think that he acted like such a gentleman outside irks me.

Devil1976 SG

Did you report to the police Question

Quinsy SG

Nope, me too trusting. I buy supermarket eggs. LOL. So far all the eggs I picked in the market are not up to standard. So I prefer supermarket prepakaged eggs! Laughing Mr. Green

rainee SG

How long have you talked to him before you started going out with him? That's why you need to discuss about this stuff before going out, tell him where you draw the line and stuff. And if he disagrees, it is bye bye to him Twisted Evil

shirurinu SG

I'm not saying that she have to be raped by him to be considered the situation to be serious. My point is... she have to place her stands firm in the first place. If she didn't want to be touched, she should have rejected him firmly. She have to get this fact straight so that she won't get into such situations again. Not because he is her bf, so even she dun like it, she still allowed him then feel dirty afterwards. She's only 17, imagine how many more bfs she will have before her marriage? At least one right, she dun protect herself the correct way, she gonna feel the same over and over again. Coz every relationship will proceed to the intimate stage. At least a high percentage of guys will try to make advances. This fact u can't deny

victimgal SG

I talked to him for a few days before agreeing. And he behaved like such a gentlemen. Talking about how much he respects me and how much he will take care of me and how he is a Christian and a choir teacher tat he will not try to do anything funny.

He's a 2 faced jerk.

SMAPLionHeart SG

I can't help but agree with shirurururu post

(sorry i dunno how to spell ur nick)

victimgal SG

I REJECTED HIM SEVERAL TIMES DURING A 2 HOUR MOVIE. HOW FIRM DO YOU WANT ME TO BE? IS THAT NOT FIRM ENOUGH?

shirurinu SG

ok.. i see what u r driving at... just remember.. in future.. if u dun feel comfortable with guy's advances, tell him u dun like it. and he should stop to show u respect. If he couldn't respect u.. it's good bye.. I think this is straightforward enough. dun feel it will embarassed him or u. Coz ultimately u have to protect urself.

If such straightforward warnings can't get him to the right track... please say goodbye immediately to him and never see him again!

SMAPLionHeart SG

Don't be crazy...i mean FOR ME as a christian , i do have a sense of humour in the forums..but when it comes to real life...i do act serious 1...

Ive once told my ex-gf b4 really going into a relationship , that i will never touch her or go beyond the morals and ethical values of normal human beings...would do

I have honoured her with my promises

I admit, some christians are hypocrites....... but anyway....
these 2 events doesn't mean all of them are tat bad =.=

rainee SG

Well I guess it is good you found out this early, imagine getting into a deeper shit with him?

Take it as a good experience and move on. This world is full with such people, and with this experience, I am sure you will be able to deal with them better the next time Wink

Devil1976 SG

If you know that he's like that and strongly detest it, why did you continue to go on the relationship with him?

victimgal SG

NO, I DID NOT. BECAUSE I'M NOT SURE IF THIS CAN BE MADE A CASE. I DONT WANT TO MAKE A TOO BIG FUSS OUT OF IT AS MY PARENTS DO NOT KNOW OF IT. ONLY MY FRIEND KNOWS. I JUST WANT TO EXPOSE HIM AND TO TELL WARN OTHERS OF PEOPLE LIKE HIM.

shirurinu SG

Welcome to the real world gal... this tells u that never trust 100% of what people tell u especially with people u have never met before, with no credentials from ur friends. And if it's only the 2nd date, how come he's ur bf already?

[email protected] SG

i take it that u missed the point that she's not a willing girlfriend to begin with? and that some boys are very good at applying emotional blackmail to girls to get what they want, and then taking advantage of their inexperience with situations like that. if a guy has to make an advance, instead of it being a spontaneous thing, then i don't feel it's a respectful relationship to begin with. that fact YOU can't deny.

victimgal SG

I DID NOT. I DUMPED HIM AFTER THAT. HE WAS STILL GENTLEMANLY ON THE FIRST DATE. ITS WAS THE SECOND DATE THAT SHOWED HIS TRUE COLOURS.

Devil1976 SG

But you are already making a big fuss out of it now?

Without any actual people to verify against him, just through a nick. How convincing do you think you can be?

SMAPLionHeart SG

Anyway, my thing is that, you all just stead..maybe from his point of view, you all already know each other well enough etc...
in chinese we call it "know each other very shou ler"

hk care lah.....
Did he molest you or something?

Just treat it as a lesson learnt lah..
When someone have a gf, you must love her so much that u will think of her future...

If she ever has a husband in the future...imagine urself as a husband.. treat her and respect her in a way that you preserve her innocence and chastity ... Wink Wink

Qo|phin SG

relack la....he's a jerk
tat's a truth....

cool dwn lor*

i'm prone to seein capital letters....

[email protected] SG

im surprised. how come some people seem intent on giving the victim a hard time instead? perhaps they feel she’s not suffered enough mental trauma?

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