Who to choose?

Magnus SG

I decide for u lah. Twisted Evil

From the way u write,
U defintely go for A.
Why?
B'cos C is always there for u. 2, if not for 8 yrs already.

be_myself SG

Hi everyone! I wanna thank y'all for your opinions and advices.... some are really thoughtful and shows exact understanding of my situation and my feelings. I really appreciate it a lot. esp browniebaobao
, devoid05, Apollo_sg, Magnus, ilovemyrolex, Yunhaier, among others.

I... need more time to decide, to get to know both even better... or as some said.... need to ask myself if I really like them. Some predict that there's a higher chance I will go for Mr A... I disagree... Mr C is really very nice to me... if anyone is me, I'm sure they would also be touched....

Thanks for taking the time to read through my post and gave nice replies even though I'm nobody to you people...

ILPSY SG

At this point of time, why are you choosing now?
Dun choose because you feel obligated to...

drx SG

she will choose neither A nor C

service_238 SG

Do what you feel like doing.
Dont choose just because he's nice to you.
But i think u should give A a chance so that u'll know him better and hence make a better decision.

but the most impt thing is..

follow your heart, not your mind.

cheers! Smile and all the best.

Oyathatsme SG

Just dont hurt the both of them.
"Lets just be friends"
You dont choose love.

be_myself SG

Hey drx, you might be right... sometimes both seem so wrong. I answer your qns in the previous post first... I broke up with my ex long time ago.... in dec 2003. Horrible memories.

Hey ILPSY... why I'm chossing... cos there were a couple of guys who liked me last year but they don't anymore, cos they were really really not suitable. I don't like at all... The current Mr A and C are people I quite like compared to others. Saying things this way makes me sound like I'm some proud and highly soughted person. No lah... I'm not... I'm very ordinary and when I'm sad, I feel that I'm nothing at all... which is quite often. Just that I don't tell the world.

But I digress...
so if I dun choose now and no one else likes me next time or who i like don't like me, I'll just be left on the shelf. Someone else in the forum say I don't choose love and shouldn't choose both. I'm also a idealist who dreams of falling in love to THE one. But sad to say, reality doesn't happen this way.

Hey Yunhaier... I'm a Leo. That's an interesting qn to ask and why ask? Mr A is a capricorn and they ain't compatible with Leos. I'm... scared.

gerrykoh SG

Choosing a guy most impt is look for character, family background (is it similar) & religion. Difference in religion u must decide whether u can accept, also do u need to convert.
Get to know A more cos u only just knew him. U need to see whether he has the qualities u are looking for.

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