OMG, I can't believe what I am reading.....all the post of
DingShenben!!! 
You are a disgrace to mankind. I am
typically a very well natured person and try as much not to comment
harsh or negative but sorry, I can't help myself.
You do not sound a bit remorseful. You have committed adultery and
yet has the audacity to blame it on your wife. I question your
value and your level of maturity. I wouldn't even start to advice
or counsel because it will definitely fall on deaf ears. You seemed
so adament about your actions and blinded about morals. Talk about
which, you said Mona is respectful. Well, what respectful person
will get involved with a married man??? Whatever happened to
discipline and self control that she is supposed to be instilling
to her students?
In one short word, you are incorrigible. I don't even know why you
post. People post to get advise and by doing that, indicate they
are open to opinions and accepting advices. But you? You have not
shown in any of your post herein in acknowledging your
shortcomings.
And where is it written that men can sleep around and women can't?
What double-standard world are you living in? What makes you
superior (over women)? Instead of recognizing that your wife is a
conservative person and then try to work around it, you opted for
another woman. Chances are if your wife is conservative, it is less
likely she fools around. But your Mona? I am not going to put her
down, but you go figure. And you really think it is okay to have
sex, with your daughter in the same room (even if she is asleep)?
What upbringing is that? It's one thing to be liberal but it is
another to be moral. What makes you Mr Ding?
There is such a thing as retribution and what goes around does
comes around. Retribution may not happen to you directly but it can
happen to the people you love. You really need to "gim toh har"
(search yourself)!
