Hello Mr. Ding......which "wu-tang pai" do you belong to??
Your thoughts are soooooo OLD SCHOOL !!!!
Don't women work now??? I thought your Mona works. No?? Oh no, I
can't believe there is still dinosaurs in this day and age. How old
are you, Mr. Ding, if I may be so rude as to ask?
Actually, I do sympathise the situation. I know and can understand
where you are coming from. I realise you have your troubles with
the marriage or your wife's behaviour but using that as an excuse
to "go out and look for other women" IS NOT a solution. Perhaps you
should have visited this forum before you embark on a relationship
with Mona or otherwise. The outcome may have been different.
I find many morally uprighted forumites around here and many write
very well with meaningful scripts. Well, that is if you are open
enough to accept people's views and advices.
Did you ever discuss with your wife about how you feel and how you
would like the marriage to be? Have you ever asked yourself, why
your wife behaved like she did? Was it a reaction to your
unfavourable actions? Both parties have a part to play, so you
can't just blame your wife. Actually, talk about blame, you ARE the
only one doing the blaming around this thread. I don't see other
forumites blaming you. We were merely expressing our sentiments of
what we thought of you or your behaviour.
Anyways, you have already made up your mind. As a fellow human
being, I wish you well and with your new found love, Mona. But one
word of advice, if you continue to behave or have that type of old
modes of reasoning, you may well lose Mona as well. Be open. The
world has been evolving and it looked like you stood still. And as
for your wife, I honestly hope you will try to make it easy for her
and your daughter. Don't be too hard. Nobody deserves anything bad.
Everybody feels good when they do a good deed and that includes you
too, Mr. Ding.
