Oh? So, this saga is still alive?
Mr. Ding, you are filing for separation? Good for you!!! Please
introduce your wife to this forum so we can guide her to sue for
adultery/bigamy (you did write that Mona is your second
wife....no?). Anyways, also introduce Mona to this site so she can
read what you have written (in this thread and other posts). I
trust from the language you use and your contents, she can
interpret your mentality.
It is a shame that you abuse your wife's sorry state. Just because
your wife has no one/where to go to and you providing her with
shelter does not make you an angel nor a superior rights over her.
Why is it "she deserves it"? You mean you have no wrongs in this at
all? Do you feel you have been careless about considering her
feelings? If you have any conscience at all, even a drop, think
about the happy times that you both had together. If both have err
and reconciliation is out of the question, then at least do a
decent and humanely thing.....be nice, be cordial. She is after all
the mother of your child.
I have a rebuttal in relations to your statement about sleeping
around but I will reserve it as I do not want to stoop to your
level. What you are capable of doing and saying, most of us has it
too but it is a matter of self control that makes the
difference.
Parting words for you...........Kindness is not a weakness!!