First of all, I like to thank both Moderators for re-opening this
thread. When I first saw that it was closed, I am like "what, no
more entertainment?" 
I find this thread to have disgust (posts from Mr. Ding, of course)
and provided a bit of humour and entertainment. A showcase of
"lectures" of all sorts.
Okay, Mr. Ding. To be honest, after your last few posts, I was very
disappointed with you. I asked myself "why do you have or want to
talk like that....about your wife?" I conceded that I will not
entertain your posts anymore because you are so deep into this MCP
culture and quite thick in the head. But I choose to believe that
humans are not that bad. We have a conscience. And I believe you do
too. Call me naive.....well, serves me right then. I am already
almost half a centurion and yet believe all mankind are good.
I write not to hurt and try as much to be objective. It would help
if you can be kinder in your words. I gave a second thought to your
posts and realise that you actually felt guilty, that's why you
post here to justify your ill actions towards your wife. Am I
right? Come on, admit it, be honest.....to yourself at least.
You talk about your wife being crazy, talking to herself. Actually,
you are no better than her because you are also "talking to
yourself" but in this post. You are battling with your feelings
that you know you did wrong but you say all these nasty things
about your wife just so to justify what you did was okay. Did I hit
it right at the nail? Introduce your wife here so she won't be
talking to herself, right?
You both have loved once and have walked quite a long journey
together. The least you should do is make it less painful for her
and your daughter. Believe me. You will find peace and feel happier
if you can be kinder and cordial during this breakup. Because you
have err, it is harder for your wife to behave "normal" or nice so
you take that first step. Be nice and stay nice. I am sure it will
rub on her and she will in turn accept the reality and be nice as
well.
Well, Mr. Ding. I hope you get it this time otherwise....* sigh
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