highway69 SG I am married but I think I have fallen in love with my sis in-law.We have so much in common and spend many fun times.Last Christmas I revealed my feelings and ever since she avoiding me.I know this is crazy but I feel I can’t go on living this way.It is tormenting me.What can I do?
Tuatau SG Originally posted by highway69: What can I do?Get a grip on yourself. Love your wife, love your brother and avoid your sister-in-law as much as possible. Go on like this, and you'll probably end up with no wife, no brother, and no sister-in-law.
highway69 SG Thks bro.Easier said than done.I know she is trying to make me forget about it.But think it is getting worse coz absence makes the heart grow fonder.Suddenly there is a huge gap in me.I really miss her.
Tuatau SG It's not easy to forget someone you like, but try distraction by thinking about your wife and kids (if any) instead. Are you having any problems with your family? Why not spend more time with your wife, ask her out for dinner, or go shopping for new furniture after work? Or spend some time keeping busy with work around the house, like cleaning up your room or study, re-organising the storeroom? Try. At least for the sake of your wife and your brother.
dragg SG i presume your sister-in-law is not japanese otherwise you have to practice what you preached.
dibilo SG i think u r juz looking for a change. its just a passing phase. think about it. who is gonna stay by ur side surporting u, encouraging u, till u grow old and till death? its ur wife. think about what made u marry her in the 1st place. what u can and should do now is to stay faithful to ur wife or else it would really be unfair to her
mistyblue SG There is no hope for you anymore. You are a disgrace to men and have soiled your marriage. I hope you get what's coming to you.
mistyblue SG Yeah right. You have emotionally betrayed your wife. If your sister in law did not reject you, would you have laid her ? Chances is high isn't it. Don't kid us or yourself. You are real jerk.
