Struggling with sex

last SG · 2005-04-11T14:29:44+00:00

cannot survive wo sex for a while.... next time after marriage got problems surely cannot survive... sekali later middle age u got impotent due to some acci...

doomz SG

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OpenGuy SG

what the hell?? u tell me how to change?? me are visual animals and are usually the ones who have high sex drive...its nature...how many guys walk pass a chio bu and the guy wouldn't look at her boobs? Mr. Green

starblue SG

how straight forward. you're certainly not one to mince his words.. Laughing

doomz, so er, did you get into a r/s cos of sex? your post sort of implies that....

BrUtUs SG

aiya jsut diy lor.... Cool

bo liao SG

Me, i dun look at boobs, i sware, i look at the "ka-ching & those long slim legs" Embarassed Mr. Green Laughing

CelestialZone SG

It is good that u are pondering about it this mean that u have feeling for her at least. The main thing is that how much u care for her, if u really care u should be prepare to have protected sex instead.

Now the problem u r facing if i correct about it, that is about her feeling and the stress that u might get a child the next time u have sex. So what u can do is to think about what are her good points other then sex and try to love her in another way. Shower it to her, that u really care for her.

OceanBaby SG

should have use condom or eat pills if both parties that desperate for sex

doomz SG

I admit i did....i regret we engage into sex so early,now she don't feel like having it anymore until the marriage is near or after marriage..

Problem is the sudden change....imagine now we only hold hand and nothing else...

Conclusion:I want to stop thinking about sex....But how? Crying or Very sad

Devil1976 SG

DIY.

Things would start to pick up when you think of your gf as a gf and less of a sex object... Cool

mistyblue SG

d,
do you even like or love her at all.

Mervic SG

Its normal as we guys have desire what.

ilovemyrolex SG

doomz,

do you just want to have sex? or
do you just want to have sex with this woman?

is this the only woman who'd have sex with you? or
or is this the only woman who'd have sex with you because you entered into a relationship with her?

first, figure it out.

maybe she doesn't want to have sex again till she's married because of the scare. were you not scared too when the possibililty of little doomz popping out?

allay her fears, use contraception, you'd be well on your way again. cheers Laughing

the sexual urge has been with us for millions of years... now that we're humans beings we're suppose to just "deal with it"?

doomz SG

Yes i do like and love her....

mistyblue SG

then respect her wishes... know her better
work to a solution for the both of you...

doomz SG

Read the topic.....My gf suddenly dun want to have sex involve in the relationship.I not getting use to DIY,too sudden....

We known each other for over 5 yrs....palnning of getting married but due to some religion problem..

Serious speaking....I keep telling myself god dun want to let me sin anymore because sex before marriage is a sin,maybe it's god grace.......(Damm i good at giving excuses for myself)

nanren4ever SG

The thing is, most men only think with their private parts when dealing with the opposite sex, not their brains. Seriously, ask urself if u are in this relationship because of sex, or because u want 2 live with this woman forever. If it is because of sex, then leave her. If u wan 2 live with this woman forever, and she loves u as much, then quickly go get married. There are many reasons why a period can be late, such as work stress. If she is still worried, ask her go see doctor or buy a pregreancy kit to test. If she is pregreant, then be responsible.

Axelheat755 SG

go wank urself b4 u meet her

tats what u do b4 u haf gf is'nt it?

if not den start learning Laughing

color ghost SG

got one way la....cut lor. Laughing dat wan confirm will affect wan.

BrUtUs SG

x2 Very Happy

Danisdead101times SG

i don't really get what you mean dude...

and the sentense above mean that she doesn't want the child if she is really pregnant? if it is so..then i think should be easy,just abort it orelse the child might just suffer as the both of you doesn't want any child at the moment~
but ofcuz if the two of you can keep the child would be the best~

pls use condom in future~