No reply from girl, why lei?

last SG · 2005-04-10T09:46:54+00:00

After so much that has been said and done, I feel perhaps maybe i have lost? But how can i lose something that was never started in the first place? Only tim...

clarion SG

She is sitll in town, seen her on MSN...

See thats the problem...i figure, she might still be interested if not she would have deleted or blocked me from MSN right?

Instead she is still there with online status...sent her a few messages i am sure she got it through MSN but no reply..

Wierd huh

clarion SG

I know stupid...me....supposed long time never see someone that i like so kan cheong duh! Crying or Very sad

clarion SG

Thanks for your input....i do know that girls her age simply cant afford to make mistakes as the time limitation is there. She did indicated that she was looking for a partner with a view of having a family...si i guess she might not want to waste time on variables

color ghost SG

got experience no experience still got a mind wat. she dun call u means she dun wanna talk to u lor. simple la. how many calls u need to send without a reply to get the rejection? some chabo like to do dis wan...purposely no receive.

clarion SG

I am planning to send her a bouquet of flowers to her office with a friendship note perhaps on Tuesday or Wednesday.

Is that a good idea to let her know my sincerity? Lilies or roses?

There is two ways it can go, one is it will backfire on me and the other it might turn out to be good as she will be suprised and more sure of my sincerity.

color ghost SG

depends wat she like lor....but since u so keen die die must have her yea can send her flowers...but if hor she finds u "FAN" hor then u need to back off before ppl more angwee u

clarion SG

I am taking it as a gamble....to try to spur an answer/reaction from her...if she has not been replying for a good reason, she will then react positively to it...

If she was not replying because she was not interested anymore, she will then be spurred to reject me.

Like that at least someway i can have closure over the matter instead of it floating forever in my mind.

clarion SG

I wonder if going to e temple we both go to pray and ask for divine interevention Sad Sharks cant get her out of my mind

My world seems to have stopped revolving

Ayukat SG

You have lost… Its very damn clear…

Magnus SG

In my own opinion, it's a bad idea.
Surprises like this might distance both of u even further.
Send flowers only if she's receptive to you.

Try to ask her out again, face-to-face, find out from her if you stands a chance. Understand her first.

color ghost SG

well it is to my understanding that she wouldnt take his calls? Laughing but usually my experience is..if anyone cannot be reached (after many tries) they are avoiding you on purpose.

clarion SG

Well i asked her out via sms yesterday, no reply...things dun look too good.

I suppose send a flower is the only way to get a response...at this point of time, i am willing to risk it all especially since she no longer responding

SinGaporGuy SG

hey may b u can have a look at the meaning of flwers there..

http://www.prince.com.sg/Info_MeaningOfFlower.asp

usck SG

u no more chance liao Sad

Devil1976 SG

Cool

clarion SG

Boo hoo Crying or Very sad somehow i have a feeling too...but i am still willing to give it one last shot by spending on flowers to know the future.

Thats the only thing i can do now

Devil1976 SG

Hmm.... Interesting.... In what sense? Cool

ilovemyrolex SG

if she's not interested, it wouldn't help sending the whole Botanical Garden over.

Just chill. You are asking her a serious question and she's not ready to answer it. In fact, I think you've left her no choice because she'll think that calling you will give you the "wrong" impression, even if she enjoyed your company on your date.

Besides, you do sound kind of scary. Continue with your own life. If she's interested, you'll get an SMS.

Marco_Simone SG

You have came on too strongly on her.I think you should have established your friendship first before moving on to such things.Now,you can only salvage the situation by taking a step back/taking a break before making your next move again.Next time when you meet her again,pretend that nothing has happened. Wink

clarion SG

Well the problem is we dun work at the same place or have mutual friends, i dun think there is any chance to meet her unless it is pre-arranged

If only we worked at the same place, i dun mind putting things on the backburner, at least i can still see her. But in situations like that where we dun have chances to meet at all, putting things on the back burner, she might just forget abt me altogether

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