Destiny of a loner

Yunhaier SG

Definitely.

Forget about the haunting past. Your life as a loner ends when your past no longer affects you.

Cheers

Seventh_Son SG

Well...I treated him like a good friend of mine. I do not really mind if he takes me for granted once or twice but now all the time. I am more easy going. But this is what I get. Well its history...I had enough of him. So I decided to walk out and stop this friendship.

flow SG

To john and flowergal, pls, DUN feel that it is ur fault. That's jus simply how things are, relationship / frenship comes n go.. Admittedly, it is natural to feel this way. i feel that too at times. U r rite, it's ez to bec overly sensitive. But, u hv to fight that; no one can help u but urself. Jus rem, such feeling can be a vicious cycle in itself, the more u feel this way, the more alienated u find urself. A loner is not nec a bad thing, wat's important is: u hv to feel good about urself..

widening ur circle of frens is one possible way of fighting such feelings; wif new frens, u start afresh...

I wish the best for both of u; and if u are one to believe in bazi, do hope that u can join us for the compatibility outing. We are looking at an outing where we gather pple of compatible bazi (and hence most likely to be able to get along) to meet and make new frens; nt necessary matchmaking, but to make new frens as well. If u are interested, See here:
http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=121588

Cheerios![/url]

flow SG

Originally posted by john nash:
[b]Long vacation

Jus completed my 1st year course & will be having an extended vacation from this week onwards
Whilst Im looking forward to it, weekends & extended hols tend to make me uneasy, especially when loneliness & depression starts creeping when u least expect it.
Wiser this time, Ive start making plans for some meaningful activities during the last week of sch (when everyone is desperately studying) ---- example: finding a part-time job, taking a short course or a sport where I can do alone. But guess that does not change the fundamental fact that Ive become quite dis-connected with people socially, seemed destined to be a loner?

I guess all could I do now is simply to study hard, work hard my only glimmer of hope lies in a distant future where Ill eventually find a partner & settle down. By then, Im sure Ill be joining some SDU or matchmaking agency & marrying an accountant or somethk Confused

guess i'm jus rambling... nt many ppl gona relate to the world of a loner like mine, but i jus gona con't writing 'cos i enjoyed it.. Wink [/b]

Yes, John, That's the way.. while ur lonliness will nt be entirely resolved by all the activities, it's a way to start and i am wif u on that. For now, jus look at expanding ur social life, open up, and see things on a wider perspective - sometimes, it's necessary for one frenship to end in order for others to start.. Smile

dun be bother wht u are rambling or not; that's wat this forum is for. So keep writing / posting.. getting if off the chest is better that keeping it within urself and letting it eat away at ur heart... Smile

John is in accountancy? then no much worries... ratio of gal:guy is much higher.. Laughing

jamz SG

flow SG

Laughing dun we all will, if he's our buddy...

Seventh_Son SG

How good??? Very Happy

starblue SG

John. are you a loner cos people don’t like to get to know you? or are you a loner cos you won’t let people come closer?? it’s a hell of a difference ya know. the kinda mentally u have will only drive people from you. so quit being such a pessimist and come outta your wall man.

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