i have a bf and we have been together for going to be a year.
he's 19 and im 17. But i still cant forget the fact that he lost
his first time to his ex when he's 16. It was only after we stead
for a few mths that he told me that he have had sex once with his
ex
I cant accept the fact at first. It was a terrible torture for me.
In my mind I cant forget it. I keep thinking about it. Its really
mentally torture. It been about 6 mths since he told me the news
and im still trapped by it. Although im slowly accepting it now,
but whenever i saw the words sex or anything relating to sexually
intercourse, i will start thinking about it again.
Can anyone tell me what can I do pls? I have tried telling myself
that its all in the past but up till now I am still troubled by it.
The reason that I dont wanna break off with him is because I feel
that its not fair to him if I do that.
by the way, he is my first bf. And how do u all define virginity
for guys?
he said he and his ex only did it halfway because he was scared.
Does it counted that a guy already lost his virginity the moment he
put his "thing" in?
