Trapped, I am a man who places significant importance on
virginity too. I can understand ur situation.
Let me advise u.....if u cant compromise, find another man. Find a
man who fits ur ideals, in this case it means, a virgin.
The choice is yours. Do u want to persue ur ideal man, or do u want
to compromise and settle for less-than ideal man? U have to answer
that urself.
Is ur current BF so good and so valuable to you? If yes, u may want
to compromise. If no, or u cant compromise, then find another man.
There are millions of other men out there. Alot of chances.
The choice is yours. Decide and then act.
