icyprincess SG i tink the guy i m interested in now...is also playing this game with me. like now he is acting 'cool'...when it was him who started it last time... god damn it. is love a game after all? see who lose, who win? it hurts. i dun wan to play anymore. i.c.y
Doenitz SG Having 100% Certainity is so boring.That is why he is playing a game with you.At one moment,he says "come,come". The next,he says"go,go"...Aren't you confused? It is called taking 2 steps forward,1 step back=overall he is moving towards you...
icyprincess SG then why does all my other frens' relationship seem so certain and calm? why do I feel like I have to constantly play a game with him in this? And I keep feeling like I shouldn't fall for him because that means I will lose when he tells me he doesn't love me after all? Yes, I am confused. It doesn't feel good at all. i.c.y
Kenashi SG unless u want to tell him how u feel n change it to a BGR, I don't think it is going to end anytime soon.
icyprincess SG tamade... i m not going to say it first. if he wants to play, i will play it wif him. see...i m going to flirt with this guy this coming week. and i will make sure he is watching. i.c.y
gerrykoh SG Reasons for rejecting a guy: 1. Not the right time esp. when the girl is still studying cos it is crucial to work hard to get a place in Uni. A r/s at this time will be too distracting. Very few can juggle both studies & r/s esp. when sch. workload is heavy. 2. No chemistry. Some guys are not good at communicating. U saw the show "For Love or Money'- Preston rejected the $1M girl Ali cos he don't feel comfortable with her. 3. Different family values, background, religion, race. For reasons 2 & 3- harder to overcome but 1- still got chance. When a girl totally ignores or avoid u, then u better give up. If she says no initially, she may change her mind if she is still on friendly terms with u. How to win her is to be persistent but not pushy, be caring. U need not buy her expensive gifts but dun give only b/day card. It shows u are a cheapskate. Even frens give each other chocolates & small presents. Sometimes the girls want to test u.
Ito_^ SG i tot oni kids play such games, i see my frens (i steadless) sometimes like dat oso dunnoe wad to say, let em zhi sheng zhi mie, think life very long for em to play emotional games is it. anyways, they dun reveal it to others is becuz to the power of face saving, dats y they seem all calm and certain, or they together for dunnoe how long liao, lao fu lao qi. :lol one more thing, this icyprincess ain't icy at all.
Doenitz SG The Guy wants to be a Challenge,the Gal also wants to be a Challenge.There you have the Game.
Kenashi SG whoa lao!!! u r treading on dangerous grounds leh!!! this is the 21st century liao, gals can always make the first move... better than to lose him rite?
icyprincess SG see..if he is really serious abt me, why is he playing this kinda game wif me? he shud just be frank wif me... so if he wans to play wif my feelings, I will shut him out from my life, from my heart. I dun mind making the first move, but if he is not sincere at all in the first place, then he doesn't deserve me. i.c.y
icyprincess SG mebbe. i will give him until one month. if still doesn't see him face by dat time, i will think of a way to repay him the money he spent on me. so dat i dun 'qian' him. i.c.y
Kenashi SG so jue!!! I thought u n he will develop something!! how come it turn out this way!!! u want me to talk some sense into him???
