Personally, I'm the kind of person who cannot tolerate my bf
contacting his exes. But then again, it all depends on the depth of
love for him. My bf and I always quarrels over his ex. She has been
calling him, sms-ing him and I don't even know whether they'd met
up behind my back. You all may say that I don't have trust in him.
But I believe that a gal would never be so persistent for a year
even when she knows that he's with me now, unless he gave her the
impression that they're still possible!
She would call him in the wee hours of the night (e.g 3am or 4am)
just to ask what is he doing or how is he. On several occasions, I
was so flared up till I snatch the phone and asked what she want.
She just apologised profusely and hung up. On another occasion,
(also around 3am) when I picked up the call, she asked me who am I
instead. When i revealed my name, she asked for my bf. But my bf
doesn't want to answer her call. So, she hung up the phone. I mean,
I understand there are such b|tches who don't know how to be
considerate. But on the other hand, if the guy never gives any
false impression, would the gal still continue to be a b|tch?
As for flirting with other gals, he addresses those gals as "Gal"
when he reply to their sms. I am helpless about that because that
is a general address. Maybe he is really good in covering up for
himself when he goes out. So far, I've not known of his any affairs
outside. Back then, when you love someone too much, you tend to be
ignorant of his whatever doings outside. That is not very healthy.
I'm still trying to help myself to wake up...
