pls let me know who does this

torx SG

Originally posted by [email protected]=-:
hi every boy and gals... i needed help in this.. i won't like to ask something.. pls do help me answer this..

[b]do u guys hit any of ur stead??

do u guys pay for gals things??

do u guys take money frm gals??

when u guys dun have money, will u ask ur stead for money??

pls do help me.. i'm doing a poll down here and i wan to show mine bf not all guys does tat to hurt their stead..[/b]

1. Yes. I would chain her up and whip her. and if she is good, i will drip wax on her nipples. Twisted Evil Evil or Very Mad

2. gal's thing? no, ownself buy tampon/ pad mah. Rolling Eyes

3. this kinda ting, gt return can already. 21st century, dunint too ji jiao.

4. isnt tis quest same as the previous 1?

sneezy SG

Originally posted by [email protected]=-:
hi every boy and gals... i needed help in this.. i won't like to ask something.. pls do help me answer this..

[b]do u guys hit any of ur stead??

do u guys pay for gals things??

do u guys take money frm gals??

when u guys dun have money, will u ask ur stead for money??

pls do help me.. i'm doing a poll down here and i wan to show mine bf not all guys does tat to hurt their stead..[/b]

1) nope.. my bf dont hit me.. but he did accidentally hit me when we are playing but he will hugz and said sorry immediately

2) my bf pay for everything, i was in aust now and currently jobless so no choice, but i onli spend money on something which i reali need. Even i got abit of money after i got back from singapore, he also dont wan me to spend that money

3) nope, he dont take from me. Cos i dont have money Mr. Green

4) He never ask me for money before. Even i back to aust from singapore and i did have a bit of money he will never ask also

elindra SG

Originally posted by [email protected]=-:
hi every boy and gals... i needed help in this.. i won't like to ask something.. pls do help me answer this..

[b]do u guys hit any of ur stead??

do u guys pay for gals things??

do u guys take money frm gals??

when u guys dun have money, will u ask ur stead for money??

pls do help me.. i'm doing a poll down here and i wan to show mine bf not all guys does tat to hurt their stead..[/b]

No, none of my bfs are abusive physically. It is not normal for a guy to hit girl.

Yes my ex bfs and hubby do pay for some of my stuff. Eg. food, drinks, movies. It is sometimes shared or I pay but most often then not, they pay.

Most don't. If they do they borrow with one exception.

Yes they do but they return immediately once they have money

lution SG

1) No I don't. Neither should she assume she won't be.

2) Nope, not so stupid.

3) Nope, no need to.

4) Nope, I can manage.

bo liao SG

Originally posted by [email protected]=-:
hi every boy and gals... i needed help in this.. i won't like to ask something.. pls do help me answer this..

[b]do u guys hit any of ur stead??

do u guys pay for gals things??

do u guys take money frm gals??

when u guys dun have money, will u ask ur stead for money??

pls do help me.. i'm doing a poll down here and i wan to show mine bf not all guys does tat to hurt their stead..[/b]

A.IN the past yes.. now no, recent but broke off gf, also no...

B. Yes, from her underwear, her pads & tampons, to clothes,our couple ring, hp bill to money for her to live..

C. No la.. abit liao kui.. but if u two r really in love wid each other, should help out , cos if marry, u cannot say push ur husband to the edge also mah..correct or not.

D.For me, is a NO NO< i rather eat less, smoke less, stay at home or do thing tat wun spend too much money lor.

Its not a poll lah, i personally thing is not gd to compare wat we do to wat ur bf do to u,cos everything is diff ma.. lik me recent ex. very JIA LAT ah lian age 17 only, 2 month plus spend my 2thousand plus.. But wid her life was Farking exciting. every night i dun even wan to sleep..hahaha, if u know wat i mean.but now she disappear liao.

Jus go on wid ur bf 1st, see how things goes, REMEMBER, do not compare him wid others. Different ppl hv different style.Its either live wid it, or fark it only.

Ledikusa SG

Originally posted by [email protected]=-:
hi every boy and gals... i needed help in this.. i won't like to ask something.. pls do help me answer this..

[b]do u guys hit any of ur stead??

Why would he hit you?

do u guys pay for gals things??

Does he have an income?

do u guys take money frm gals??

Why bother to start a relationship when you do not have a stable income?

when u guys dun have money, will u ask ur stead for money??

Why would he ask money? Ask him why? No proper reason means no reason to give him the money~

pls do help me.. i'm doing a poll down here and i wan to show mine bf not all guys does tat to hurt their stead..

A poll? Do you think he bothers? If he bothers to do those actions stated above, do you think he would change? Man has a weird but strong sense of pride. Using others to threaten his dominance would only make him more defensive and thus spoil the whole relation. Try reasoning it out with him, if he tries to dominate the talk, bring in a good friend of yours and his as the center man/woman . Keep the topics private. Remember, talk with reason. Guys tend to argue poorly as their emotions take over during arguements. Careful to take note of his emotions during arguement. A guy that can be violent to you would do so in front of others to show that he's in control. TAke Care. Though.. i believe this relationship won't last long.. Even if it lasts, You wouldn't be happy. Trust us.
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neuros SG

ditto Mr. Green

subzero_baby SG

i can volunteer... Mr. Green

To Threadstarter:

Dump him lar. All the other point 2,3, & 4 i can tahan... but point 1 is way out babe... No Man should lay his hands on Woman. If there is once, chances are that there will be a second. Don't wait for it to happen. Paying on dates depends on both of your financial situations. If he is still schooling or has no earning power whereby u have, then it's not too bad lor.

[email protected] SG

ooooohhhhhhhh!
*hops in excitement*
Mr. Green

tliqun SG

1) no, not in a million years
2)see what present loh, must be afforable mah
3)try not to
4)same as 3

parn SG

Originally posted by [email protected]=-:
hi every boy and gals... i needed help in this.. i won't like to ask something.. pls do help me answer this..

[b]do u guys hit any of ur stead??

do u guys pay for gals things??

do u guys take money frm gals??

when u guys dun have money, will u ask ur stead for money??

pls do help me.. i'm doing a poll down here and i wan to show mine bf not all guys does tat to hurt their stead..[/b]

Guys does all the above mentioned actions sometimes...but not all the time. And also not all guys does that, and not all guys are really nice once they've got you. Smile

If you are with your bf and you feel upset 70%-80% of the time, chances are you are with the wrong guy. And if your bf hits you...that is very wrong, you should advise him against it or leave him. Guys like this are so not worth you time, love and attention.

In short, find a guy who will respect you as a human individual and as a potential human partner.

Everybody is different, so if you mind about certain things that he does...please bring it up and have a discussion about it. Only bring up events that will seriously affect your love for him for discussion. And please don't have a discussion for petty matters or else he will leave you for his mom whom he considered to be less nagging than you. Smile

Oh well...take care and always try to live a happier life with your bf or else dump him to live a happier life. Smile

Good Luck. Smile

subzero_baby SG

sure or not... i very violent leh Embarassed Mr. Green

[email protected]=- SG

i'm sorry but i dunno how to do a poll in here.. hehe.. anyone can help??

wow.. i actually cried when reading this... hehe.. all mine frenz have tried to tok to him but he onli change for a dae or so and he goes back to his normal self... den he goes again den i call mine ex class mates and they tell me the same thing.. i tried to tok to him but it seems he dun let me speak a word... he always wan it his way... den i tok to mine ex and ask... and i tried again but no use... coz he dun allow me to sae anthing..

whenever we quarrel, he tend to juz dun care abt me when i walk away... tat really pissed me off... den when he angry, i have to run to him and always sae sorry... even when it is not mine fault... i'm tired of saving the relationship...

he always tell me tat he wanted to break coz of his mother keep on telling to break with me.... should i let him break ??? ( but i'll be v v hurt lor)...he and his group of frenz are treating me like shit.. wat should i do?? i'm like lost all mine close frenz and nothing left... i'm getting to faint soon.. how??? his fren is like treating me like so cold whenever i happen to see them...

subzero_baby SG

your incident sound really similar to mine. But my ending was that he still walked off/ dumped me (1.5 yr together) without a reason after missing in action for 3 weeks. Cried for months, till now still think of him Crying or Very sad

I feel your pain, but "chang tong bu ru duan tong" short pain rather than long pain... let him go now... obviously he don't learn lor. Either way, he leaving you later or now, it's still painful. BE STRONG!!

boy in blues SG

Originally posted by [email protected]=-:
hi every boy and gals... i needed help in this.. i won't like to ask something.. pls do help me answer this..

[b]do u guys hit any of ur stead??
never

do u guys pay for gals things??
sometimes

do u guys take money frm gals??
never

when u guys dun have money, will u ask ur stead for money??
never

pls do help me.. i'm doing a poll down here and i wan to show mine bf not all guys does tat to hurt their stead..[/b]

so what exactly do you see in the bummer?

aRcTiC_sTaR SG

LoL same. We don't hit girls, it's the other way round though =p

Yeah guy pays, but sometimes my gal pays as well. It's fair =) Can't expect the guy to pay for everything.

And nope, I don't sponge off my girl, so that's the same for question 4.

_Aaron_ SG

There's no point. As subzero_baby has mentioned, even if you hold on to him, he WILL break up with you sooner or later. To suffer for a shorter time, is much better than to prolong your suffering.

He does not care about you at ALL. He only cares about himself. He's a self-conceited egotistic prideful MCP.

Leave him, and start your life anew. You have erred in the past, do not let the error go on, and start your new life without him.

It'll be painful and hard, but go back to your close friends. I'm sure your really good friends will welcome you back with open arms, and you'll have your friends back again.

I think you're quite young, you'll find others in your life to replace that gap. Do not carry on thinking that he's the one.

Pluck up your courage and break up. Its what the both of you needs.

kiekie SG

Originally posted by [email protected]=-:
hi every boy and gals... i needed help in this.. i won't like to ask something.. pls do help me answer this..

do u guys hit any of ur stead??

do u guys pay for gals things??

do u guys take money frm gals??

when u guys dun have money, will u ask ur stead for money??

pls do help me.. i'm doing a poll down here and i wan to show mine bf not all guys does tat to hurt their stead..[/b]

1)YES, he strangled me at the neck for duno how many times when he flared up, and i got hysterical and threatened to jump down from his 16storey high HDB flat where his parents witnessed the incident. that was the last time he strangled me.

As for beating me, he nv..only pulled my hair..

2)We r not calculative abt who should be the one paying.

3)yes, he does, cuz he dun have cash wif him but he nv returns Very Happy cuz i oso nv return him..

4)of cuz he will ask me for $ when he dun have, its better than he borrow from his frenz, cuz he still need to return them...and might cause alot of problems if he cannot return on time..its quite paisay for guys i suppose.

[email protected] SG

*wide eyed with excitement*
Embarassed

subzero_baby SG

we can take this to "bar" if you want Embarassed ... but not so nice to go deeper here....or you can let me know your preference of violence Mr. Green

let's just "advise" ms. troubled... Wink

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