Sometimes, no one is there to help because they don't know. I
believe if you reach out for help, there will be someone there for
you. True, no one likes an emotional baggage, virtual or reality,
but why do you think we here are posting at AA? Cause we're all
kaypo's or act sincere? No, cause we genuinely want to help.
Perhaps some of your friends whom you told online didn't know how
to help. Sometimes, when we don't know what to do/say, we just
mutter something like 'oh, so sad. You'll feel better soon.' I'm
guilty of this myself. But how do you know None of them were
genuine? Some of them may want to help, but not quite sure if
you'll accept it.
Relate this to love. Doesn't it pain to trust/believe that someone
really loves you, tell them you do, and get ignored as well? But
are you going to stop loving someone because of it?
Life and reality may rear its ugly head once a while, but sometimes
we forget that life, can also be the most beautiful thing in the
world..