parn SG Okie...well, the worst thing that can happened is...she may be waiting for somebody else to ask her to be his girlfriend. She definitely will not mind you to help her carry her bag for her as you are her friend and she thinks that you are nice and helpful. The rest of the points that you have pointed out don't really meant anything as she could be a friendly and polite girl. For keeping the dating as secret, you will need to refer to my worst scenario in the first line in my first paragraph. Continue to care for her as a friend and like her if you still have feelings for her. Don't think about anything else as they might not make you a happy person at the end of the day...or worse, before the beginning of your date with her. Good luck......
[email protected]_arms SG Ofcourse u stand a chance. But don't expect anything rofl. Everyone stands a chance, no matter how fucking minute.