Are guys afraid of gossip?

last SG · 2004-10-24T18:14:20+00:00

i m not asking him to announce it. we are not even in a r/s yet. but isn't it cruel to just leave me hanging just because some people are talking abt us? i....

mahai102 SG

ask him to die lah...looks like u need a good shagging to help u tide over things... Mr. Green

edLow SG

sometime gossip might be very irriating actually.
imagine being make fun for the whole day in sch or work.

as for me, i wont really bother lor. they wanna say.. say lor.. but i will restrict my words n action when i see the girl ard. so tat they wont find any new topics to make fun of me. hahahaa...

maybe u should ask him why.. confront him if required.. like wat many others say.. maybe he has someone else in mind. well if he do, i guess u noe wat u should do ba.

Devil1976 SG

Some people are just not so used to gossips and such (especially so for guys?). And hence, they might be more sensitive to it? Afterall, he probably thinks that he don't want any trouble before he even start off in a relationship if you? Mr. Green

Well... Talk to him about it? No matter what, there're probably bound to be bits of gossips here and there.. Whether you know it or not....? And don't expect any less trouble? This is ONLY the BEGINNING... Does he expect all 'SMOOTH SAILING' in a relationship? Ask him, is he gonna be turning around and run off at 1st sight of trouble when things go WRONG...? Mr. Green

Unless he's not really serious about you, he should really DO SOME THINKING about IT...? Or maybe he's just inexperienced?

icyprincess SG

super inexperienced i wud say.
i dunno what he is thinking.
and i m too lazy to keep on trying to find out.
so if he is serious, i will let him make the move.
if not, i will forget him as time goes by.

i.c.y

pete98 SG

Why is he so worry about gossip? What could be so bad about two of you having a relatinship? Go out together is not allowed is it? I also got a lot of people gossiping about me in my company about my r/s with a Indian girl(in case any 1 wondering, I'm a Chinese) what. But so what, I still talking to her in the company and even asking her out once. Spend a whole afternoon at orchard cafe chatting. Granted we did not admit we are a couple but its obvious theres someting going on. I also a very shy person who blushes easily when tease by girls. But I realize that if you really like someone strong enough, views of others really not matters much. Smile Although I do hate some of the terms(slightly racist) people use to describe her Mad

Devil1976 SG

Why not you teach him? If you're seriously interested in him, you should be tecahing him? Smile Unless you're not...? Then... I suppose you're right...? Just let time drown the whole thing yeah....?

pie SG

not much time to be patient in this competitive society….

Nelstar SG

Every individual is but an individual.

the Bear SG

frankly, if i was interested in someone and that someone is amenable to my moves, and we get together, i'm telling everyone who wants to listen...

and a few who do not want to... Laughing

sgFish SG

i don’t really mind gossip…but when i go out with the girl (that I like), she minds it a lot, and always want to go places that few ppl that we know go…

picachu SG

The reason is
He dont like u and he like a ger which both of u know.

He is afraid that ger will misunderstand.

Trust me.

mimi71 SG

Hey Exclamation I'm currently having that problem also, i hate shy guy you know becoz they simply don't wana get involve wif other people, they just run away from the big crowds, they are scared of gossispers especially, they are just some bunch of cowards that still hang around in this world, it's not easy to handle this type of shy guy, they have their own piece of mind you see, and they love to talk about other people when that person is not around, and I have to tell him off for being such a coward, they're just need to be dumped Twisted Evil Evil or Very Mad

Gossip Question The walls have ears so whatever we do or we didn't do at all, people will still talk about us, this is life man, the real world and the worst gossipers are "some" of the guys not the ladies, really especially those old man in their 40s. Sorry old guys, but this is true because i have friends and most of them are guys at that age and they are pure gossipers, i simply can't stand them. Evil or Very Mad They are not healthy people anyway Exclamation

fandango SG

people gossip because they have nothing better to do, stucking their noses into peoples buttocks.

your boy is shy because of low-confidence or low self-esteem.

icyprincess SG

he is just weird. i already try to make him feel easy around me. it is not that i dun make the effort or anything. but yet he listens so much to his own fear and his frens dat he is starting to infuriate me. if i dun like him, i wun ask him to go out with me so many times. yet, times and again i was rejected. and he was the one who started this in the first place. if he is scared, he mite as well stay clear away from me. but no. he has to start all this only to back out again in the end.

this type of people deserved to be sent to the end of the world. only then they will know.

i.c.y

choco B SG

I think he’s too immature to handle a relationship. Probably too concerned with peer pressure and what his friends say. He’s just not ready yet.

icyprincess SG

then he shudnt have asked me out in the first place. i hate ppl who gives me hope only to be the one who dashed it in the end.

i.c.y

SGpork SG

same.

SGpork SG

true...

slowly..eventually..they will stop .

icyprincess SG

i guess those voices of his are more important to him...he just let those overshadow me and my presence.

it is sad really.

i.c.y

verloren SG

you can do two things:

a) help him to get out of his insecurity. get him to face his fears and teach him how to be confident.

b) ditch him and move on with your life. if he can't even handle a simple thing like this, how can you expect him to go through the difficult times with you when you're in a r/s?

i would strongly recommend (b).

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