Dear Friends,
Please help me out with this problem I have. Last week I finally
asked a girl out. I liked her for the past year. She is very
popular in school, and is part of the student union. She is very
friendly to everyone, and always has a smile on her face. When she
agreed to go out with me, I was overjoyed. No words can describe
that feeling.
We went out, and she asked me questions like.. If i had anyone I
like right now. (Which I did not answer and tried to change topic).
She was also very interested in finding out with kinda of girl I
liked. She also told me about her personal life, and her
experiences with her bf and why they broke up. She even made a joke
about how she was going to marry me so that I can get a work permit
in Taiwan, but I would have to pay her money for it. I believe that
the date went extreamly well. She even called me 15 mins after I
sent her home to check if I was all right.
I was over the moon. I thought that I might actually have a chance
with this girl. My dreams were dashed these few days though. And i
have no idea why. I went out with her last Saturday. On Monday she
had to goto the doc's for a check up. I decided to give her a call
to see how she was. This was the first call I made after that date.
No one answered the phone, no one called me back. I send an SMS,
and that wasn't replied either. I called her again on tuesday, and
the same thing happened. No one answered the call. She didn't even
call me back. I saw her on MSN later that day, and asked her out
for dinner. She told me she don't feel comfortable going out on a
weekday, and she had a test the next day. I said "okies, maybe the
weekend then". She replied. "Yah.. proberly weekend la." Today, I
sat on the bench near her class as i did for the past 2 months,
waiting for her to pass by. She always passes by that corridor. But
today, I saw her talking another route. I don't know if she is
avoiding me.
Please help guys. I'm 22, never had a girlfriend, never had any
experience chasing girls, and I really do not know how girls think.
I mean. I thought that the date went pretty well, what happned!?
not answering my calls and such. I'm so confused. Please help me
and share your views! thx! I always have this naive dream that I
will wait for a girl I truely love and give her my all. I have
rejected alot of girls who are wonderful people, but I do not feel
strongly for because of my dream. Is this really an impossible
dream? I'm really so tired... I know its a long read, and thanks
for being patient enough to go through it.
