Originally posted by Cyrel:
We went out, and she asked me questions like.. If i had anyone I
like right now. (Which I did not answer and tried to change topic).
She was also very interested in finding out with kinda of girl I
liked. She also told me about her personal life, and her
experiences with her bf and why they broke up. She even made a joke
about how she was going to marry me so that I can get a work permit
in Taiwan, but I would have to pay her money for it. I believe that
the date went extreamly well. She even called me 15 mins after I
sent her home to check if I was all right.
she was just trying to make the
conversation light and interesting for you. remember that you said
she was friendly to everyone? don't think too
much.
I was over the moon. I thought that I might actually have a
chance with this girl. My dreams were dashed these few days though.
And i have no idea why. I went out with her last Saturday. On
Monday she had to goto the doc's for a check up. I decided to give
her a call to see how she was. This was the first call I made after
that date. No one answered the phone, no one called me back. I send
an SMS, and that wasn't replied either. I called her again on
tuesday, and the same thing happened. No one answered the call. She
didn't even call me back. I saw her on MSN later that day, and
asked her out for dinner. She told me she don't feel comfortable
going out on a weekday, and she had a test the next day. I said
"okies, maybe the weekend then". She replied. "Yah.. proberly
weekend la." Today, I sat on the bench near her class as i did for
the past 2 months, waiting for her to pass by. She always passes by
that corridor. But today, I saw her talking another route. I don't
know if she is avoiding me.
remember that she's part of a student
union; student union members are very busy. besides, girls get
stressed up very easily due to exams. i know guys don't really give
a damn to exams, but girls are different. 
if you think that she's being very cold in her SMS reply, i can
tell you that she doesn't mean it. don't think too much! she didn't
return your call because she's just plain busy.
btw, DON'T confess to her. you will only land yourself in a dead
end.
