Hey, fren, if she really love you that much, i beieve that no
matter how far u're n how long you'll be away from her, she'll be
yours. But dun b assured that she'll wait for you thru'out your
years of studies(4yrs?). I do understand that at this moment of
time, it's very difficult for you n her to be seperated,esp. for
4yrs. How long have you two been togather? (I din really read thru
your whole story) Anyway, if you've been togather with her within a
year, it's normal for her n you to have reacted in such ways, i.e.
"you feel hurt to see her reacted in those ways and can't bear to
leave her behind n b alone to "suffer." n so n so...you noe
yourself...
I was in the same situation as you b4, but juz that i wasn't going
to one of the top uni. for studies. My dad wanted to send me to
Aust. to study..however, the prob.'s that i've a gf who has been
with me for 2years++..i juz can't bear to leave her behind n pursue
my studies...but wat choices do i have? Two only, either i study or
i dun. But for us, guys, we need a career..if not, how're we goin
to support the person whom we love in the future?
Since you've the chance to go to Cambri. for your studies, go ahead
n pursue it and attain good results..not everyone has the chance to
do to study..and as for your gf, you still can contact her by
email, icq n msn messager which i believe it's quite popular now.
Yuo'll get to see her everyday (provided you two have web cams.)
And since your parents dun support your ticket back to spore during
yuor vacation, then bo bian lor...work n save up lor...tat''s going
to be worth it since you love her so much n so does her.
My advise, pursue your studies n study well n come back for her
after you graduated. Discuss with your gf wat your thoughts are.
Hopefully, you two can reach an understanding. Love can do
wonders.
*By the way, do not blame your parents for not providing you the
air ticket, afterall, they're your parents and every parent want
their children to be successful. It's all for your own good. Hope
that the love between you and your gf can hold strongly.
oh...forgot to mention that i've made a 3rd choice, in the end, i
pursue my studies...but it's not in Aust. It's in Spore. =)
Take care and all the best. 
