icyprincess SG i wanted to go watch movie but he doesn't want to said it will take too long and he has assignments to do... i.c.y
DevilAngel77 SG icy, dun worry so much abt wat has passed.. it wun change no matter how u feel about it now.. wat u can only do now is to work harder and hope ur grades r much better off next time dun let things get u down.. it wun help at all.. so look forward and buck up! even if u 2 different course, tis is a good chance for you to ask him to teach u how to study!! thou not the same course, but can still share share the studying method mah..
icyprincess SG hmm..mebbe i will ask abt dat hehe thanks for the advice DA i will jia you from now on. wich means less time spent in sgforums i.c.y
icyprincess SG yea lor..he not like me ma.. so in the end just went to the nearest coffee shop and sit there and talk lor...then play a bit of chess wif him...then went back...din see him for dinner...din see him online bcos i have been offline for a while...i miss him but i dunno how to tell him dat... wish he can be here now to give me a hug... i.c.y
icyprincess SG he lives faraway la...have to meet up evtime like very hard...even wan to have dinner together oso hard cos sumtimes both of us so busy so hard to contact each other...evtime he calls me i wud be either away or asleep... and if i study wif him..scared i cant concentrate oso... i.c.y
kopiosatu SG well, u can initiate... why don't you go find him or initiate meeting up to study? instead of finding excuses to not meet. find solutions to meet. u forgot the winner's creed. now its, we're to far, no time, hard to contact ; then you won't meet.
icyprincess SG will ask him for lunch or dinner tomorrow...then ask him if he wans to study wif me i.c.y
kopiosatu SG steady, that's the way. And if anyone can't make it, try try again. You'll get things done only if you want to.
icyprincess SG i m self-doubting...and i m doubting him as well.. i m not sure how he feels towards me...dats y i m confused.. i.c.y
kopiosatu SG Then ask for a date... see how it goes. The tiniest things you do can show that you like him. Make him a drink? Get him a drink after he has a game? Surprise him by meeting him after class? After that, you just have to see his reaction.
icyprincess SG i ask him out for lunch and dinner lor...he always showed up la so far...then this saturday will go out wif him to a show in campus... i m planning to give him a gift...but dunno when yet..i can't meet him after class...i always have class when he is free, he always have class when i m free i.c.y
kopiosatu SG u see ah, that sad face must go. why do you think of things to negatively? because you're not prepared to fail right? See what education has made us out to be. just make the effort... confront any problems with a solution.
icyprincess SG i guess i am afraid to fail to a certain extent..and it is not bcos of education...it is bcos i have been hurt too many times in the past dat i m afraid of trying so hard only to be let down in the near future.. i have negative thoughts all the time..i m a worrywart. and it sucks cos i cant share it wif him. i dunno how to tell him my worries bcos i dunno how he feels abt me. i.c.y
kopiosatu SG hmmm first you said maybe he's interested, now you say you don't know. I prefer the earlier comment more, because there's still optimism in it. You know what's the best thing? Don't wait for him to ask. Why bother asking? Just build from here.
