hiya icy, i'm more or less an ice queen too in person & can
be really shy in expressing myself sometimes.. esp with the one i
feel deeply for. so, u're not alone...
by & by, through some good learning experiences, i gather that
i muz first focus on enjoying d person's company rather than being
too self-conscious.. juz concentrate on wat he says, thinks &
behaves & react accordingly in a sincere & genuine way and
things will turn out great during d date...
let your doubts rest and try not to have too much expectation or
second-guess his intentions often (tho i know u can't help it with
d person u like) or u'll find yourself thinking too much for his /
your own good.
ultimately, be comfortable in your own skin & u'll glow
naturally..
cheer up gal 
