Is she really two timing me?

last SG · 2004-09-24T01:13:16+00:00

if u trust her u wont post it here already..... trust is use ur feeling not by words. Talk it out with her. i think this is the best way.

akino SG

ya loh... get a life! go out more often. go beach tian mimi go watch movie go shopping! sayang her more la.. wat msn la.....

paradox86 SG

She lied to you, you shld not let tht happen; tell her. I am courting this girl now, she like me too but she kept telling abt the guy she used to like and going out with him and so on. Jealously took place of course but if you really start thinking abt it; you'll find tht she's being honest to ya.

One thing you've to keep this relationship going is to have trust. Without it either party will suffice. Tell her you already had me, why are you
seeing/flirting with this guy. Am i not caring enough or are you not sensitive enough about how i felt ? If she apologize to ya, make sure this doesn't happen again; monitor her closely. Building up trust from dere, if she insists on seeing tht guy even after you had confronted her.. . thn i guess it's time to really let go.

You have to get to know what's the reason she's contacting tht guy suddenly. Was it becuz he lives nearby and thus she tink tht having a bf living near her would be great. If tht's the case, she lacks sense of security.. she must be thinking tht oh, he lives so near me; i can walk with him to sch and after and have this really close relationship since he's living next to her.

Some girls seek companion by searching for guys living near her. Let her know how you felt and pray tht the answer would be smth tht u thought of. God blessed. Mr. Green

Yunhaier SG

How old are the both of you? It's like a classic puppy love to me.

Power struggle within relationship is common, especially when security issue is involve. To enter into power struggle with your partner is when you start having this 'You can't do this, but I can' mentally, 'I want to be above you, I want to grasp the relationship'. Regardless, both of you desired to capture certain form of stability within the relationship by exercising conscious control - until one party gives in. Rather unhealthy to maintain relationship this way.

Why does she accept you in the first place? I truely doubt its for love.

Disagree?

What if I were to say that guy whom he has a crush on decide to chase her, do you truely think you stand a chance against his invasion?

P.S: Is she a Libra? Idea

Cheers

shoutcast SG

F her then quick change new one Shocked

xking SG

my advice for you.

if U dun feel comfortable about it.
dun feel happy abt it. Its better to end before U go any deeper. Coz since U are oredi unhappy....do U think anything will change in the future???
Her characters is liddat, either U accept it and be prepared or U gave it up and find someone who U feel happy and comfortable with.

Yunhaier SG

Theory-wise, the above statement is not as applicable.

Under Art Of Seduction: a fully satisfied woman can never be seduced - is only applicable to woman.

Why?

CloUdiSm Remix III under the Biological Divide:

All woman sees relationship as investment.

Man is different; because the biological role of a man is to spread its seed - even in a satisfied relationship, he can still screw around. Check old AA topics and you could even find some guys, having very good wife, very good relationship, yet their play the field.

Woman fool around when they are unsatisfied - man has the ability to fool around whether they are satisfied or not.

P.S: Flip through the first few pages of 'Relationship for Dummies' and you will discover that it is written: Only woman and enlightened guys will pick up this book and read it. Enlighten guys may have the ability to escape the above claims - but can you satisfy your woman in all aspects and render your relationship invulnerable? Idea

Cheers

Yunhaier SG

Embarassed

/me credit sleepcat's account with money.

/me whisper 'its done - thanks as well.' Twisted Evil

sleepycat SG

*keeeps money sheeeepishly*

i've updated d above explanation to my compilation of Yun's sayings in AA Laughing

*awaits more $$$!!! * Twisted Evil

chillzzz Wink

Yunhaier SG

Originally posted by sleepycat:

*keeeps money sheeeepishly*

i've updated d above explanation to my [b]compilation of Yun's sayings in AA

*awaits more $$$!!! *

chillzzz [/b]

Bu hui bah~ Idea

/whisper 'Credit next month' Twisted Evil

Cheers

kaobeikaobu SG

Originally posted by Yunhaier:

Theory-wise, the above statement is not as applicable.

Under Art Of Seduction: a fully satisfied woman can never be seduced - is only applicable to woman.

Why?

[b]CloUdiSm Remix III under the Biological Divide:

All woman sees relationship as investment.

Man is different; because the biological role of a man is to spread its seed - even in a satisfied relationship, he can still screw around. Check old AA topics and you could even find some guys, having very good wife, very good relationship, yet their play the field.

Woman fool around when they are unsatisfied - man has the ability to fool around whether they are satisfied or not.

P.S: Flip through the first few pages of 'Relationship for Dummies' and you will discover that it is written: Only woman and enlightened guys will pick up this book and read it. Enlighten guys may have the ability to escape the above claims - but can you satisfy your woman in all aspects and render your relationship invulnerable? Idea

Cheers [/b]

sorry yunhaier...but i beg to differ....
theory doesn't emcompass the entire human race....neither guys having very good wives in those old AA topics will prove these theory works for every relationship in the entire world. The world has too many things for us to see, feel, learn...never ending...endless...

I will say wat i know thru my experiences. I am nt satisfied with my gf but i dun want any one else...never ever...your theory 'says' -'yeah rite, deh'
i tell my gf wat i feel wat i need, she tells me wat she feel wat she needs...we work them from there...

i can only tell u this coz tis happen to me in real life.... i'm nt here to convince u or anyone..
what i see n feel is in blood n flesh...frm my bottom of my heart...i dun add in extra 'salt' or 'spice'...no 'sugar coating...'
i just want to share my experience here...no implication, ok?
Wink
you may nt believe it, cuz u r nt me n i'm nt u...cuz u believe wat u see rite?
i do too.... Smile

I'm

sleepycat SG

Agreed.. there're always miraculous exceptions..

KBKB.. you taught me something precious in what you wrote to ICY here.

wana say xie xie ni.. Laughing

wan an.. sleeeep tight Wink

Yunhaier SG

That's why as stated in the P.S Enlightened Guys are the exception to this. (Read my P.S leh Crying or Very sad ) They are the exceptions. In the Aquarius Age, everything is evolving and because external factors inevitable part of a relationship, it makes present relationship daunting, confusing and complicating, comparative to relationship in the past.

P.S: I understand lar! Twisted Evil Wink

Cheers

Xcert SG

dont try to do something U are not capable of doing.

kaobeikaobu SG

Embarassed sorry..

i think i need to sleep...brain malfunction liao...

kaobeikaobu SG

Originally posted by sleepycat:

Agreed.. there're always miraculous exceptions..

KBKB.. you taught me something precious in what you wrote to ICY [b]here.

wana say xie xie ni..

wan an.. sleeeep tight [/b]

mara gam... Smile

Yunhaier SG

/kick KBKB to the bed. Twisted Evil Laughing

Nitez!

Cheers

kaobeikaobu SG

*matrix-style siam*

nitez...

Yunhaier SG

WHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA! Laughing Twisted Evil

kaobeikaobu SG

-_-'

Magnus SG

Where to read on 'P.S Enlightened Guys' ?

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