Mindset Problems *

paradox86 SG · 2004-09-24T10:49:57+00:00

Originally posted by kaobeikaobu: it's not one guy fren who is confused but MANY! Seems quite obvious liao..... she's scared tt if she goes out with A, even...

paradox86 SG

I did told her to change, gave her suggestions such like heyyyy.. if guy frens ard ya left ya due to u're attached, they're dun deserve to be ur fren. etc etc. Right now, i duno what to say to her to make her realise and see the light herself Rolling Eyes

mimi71 SG

hemmm....... Rolling Eyes complicated Exclamation I rather spend time doing something else if she's not listening or simply avoid her Cool

SunRisE SG

As a friend that's all you can do...

She will realised it one day.. When?? I dunno.. you dunno.. It all depends on herself.. if she willing to jump out from that circle.. and awake.. it will be a new start for her.. If she keep indulging in that world of her own.. then noone can do anything..

mimi71 SG

Yes, dats true pple will hear you but they will not listen to you at this time, but when she reach dat certain stage and age she will finally realised the whole thing, her mistakes her everything she did in the past Laughing we can advice her now and the rest is all up to her, within her trueself.

We can still be there for her as friends dats what friends are for just be there whenever she's down Cool

kaobeikaobu SG

do watever u think u WUN REGRET nt doing them which is to help her..
but provided u do take care about urself as well(cuz no one else can) n dun EXPECT too much(know where u stand as well). To her, you r just her friend.

Exclamation As there might be possibility that she still refuses to heed or fail to realise even then. but at least u wun regret nt doing what u actually wanted to do. Wink

lastly, she's nt ready for any relationship rite nw, cuz she needs to sort herself out first. It will take time, patience...and patience.

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