If they wanna make her understand, she has to realise why her
friends are warning and discouraging her from being close to him.
At this moment she don't. Of course, if mere words could make her
realise, I doubt her friends would post such lengthy essay in AA
seeking for other's opinion since they would have already handled
them?
***
There are two forms
of teaching in education:
I) Spare the rod, spolit the child.
II) Ai de jiao yu. ('Love Education')
BBB understand your concerns because you will be worried about her
if she was your friend - I am of no exception. A big however is
that you belong to analogy (I). There is nothing wrong with
it, but the risk of creating a rebellious child is there.
Analogy (II) served for life and what she would learn from her
friend's advice, together her own situations would make her
remember for life. Would you remember the girl
whom wound you badly emotionally better or bear the same intense
recalling as the girl whom had a crush on you, your friends cheered
on, yet you had no feelings with?
I tell all my friends this thing: I am not here to make direction,
I am here to stand when you fall and thus my position.
P.S: I learn to flow with the heart, not to work against it.
Cheers
