HELP ME ! I feel like dying now over my ex !

Ito_^ SG

nabe, you evil bastard. Laughing stay away from north east line can liao. Confused slowly jia you lo, bt dun think of dying la. there is always a better tomorrow de.

december SG

She felt very insecure when she was with me.
How should make her feel secured then ?

Eiizumi SG

Wear a T-shirt stating "Trust me Cool " ?

larry_longwei SG

My Dear Brother.. Scorpions ESPECIALLY the female species want ATTENTION above ALL ELSE... And since she is FEMALE, dats her pre-dominant trait..

Scorpions tend to LOVE very strongly once they fall in love.. and at any point of time shld they feel dat their partner is slacking even 1% in loving them, they'll start to STING..

Watever U do, juz DON'T make an enemy out of a FEMALE SCORPION..

My Blessings to U.. Wink

greyskymorning SG

time changes many things...but not the memories Crying or Very sad

Dark Conviction SG

December,

Since you probably know the reason why you quarrel so often and broken up in the past, what you should do now is probably to:

a) Watch that temper of yours and try to control it. Dont so readily vent out your frustrations. In other words, stay cool.

b) Continue to keep in touch with your ex but don't make it look like you are pestering her. Give her some space to think and freedom to move around.

c) If talking to your ex, don't keep bringing up the past. Keep your conversations away from topics like trying to get together etc. But try to be her friend.

d) You got to be steady yourself before she can be secure with you. Feeling secure not necessarily means physical protection. It also means that she have to be able to count on you for whatever problems she has and knowingly, you are matured enough to give her advise and solve some of the problems for her.

e) Be responsible and try to show it in your actions towards her. This is a +ve step to show her that you can be counted on and trusted.

Good Luck

Devil1976 SG

You'll never learn... Both of you probably won't work out because both of you are EQUALLY STUBBORN.... Cool

Devil1976 SG

COOL NICK... Cool

Yunhaier SG

Originally posted by larry_longwei:
My Dear Brother.. Scorpions ESPECIALLY the female species want ATTENTION above ALL ELSE... And since she is FEMALE, dats her [b]pre-dominant trait..

Scorpions tend to LOVE very strongly once they fall in love.. and at any point of time shld they feel dat their partner is slacking even 1% in loving them, they'll start to STING..

Watever U do, juz DON'T make an enemy out of a FEMALE SCORPION..

My Blessings to U.. Wink [/b]

Astrologically bias! Twisted Evil Laughing

Cheers

bo liao SG

Haha..if possible,mayb u specially sent me a horoscope for capricon for me? Please...can or not, cos every time lik see u use horoscope to add in the reply..

See ur the a-na-lice-zei-tion "zhun or not"hehehe Embarassed cos wan to know more bout myself mah...

bAbYpOotS SG

i guess the reason why she is keeping a distance from you is that she feels that being together with all those quarrels will hurt you..

is like she loves you and she doesn't want you to get hurt and to do that she is keeping a distance away?

hope you get what you mean..
maybe you can try explaining to her that if you 2 are together it won't be like before?

december SG

But she very stubborn, she couldnt listen anything i told her.
Maybe action speaks louders than words. What should i do to prove to her that being with me she can finally feel the security that she yearns for,

gerrykoh SG

Maybe she has bad memories of both of u quarrelling all the time so she doesn't want to patch back. Give her more time & don't pressurize her. Remain a friend & show her through yr actions that u still cares & have learnt yr lesson.
If she still resist, then u have to let go

Yunhaier SG

Please state: Birth date, Birth time and birth place.

Cheers

Devil1976 SG

I bet SO ARE YOU...? Cool

december SG

Now the situation had changed. SHe broke up wif her bf becos she said a special memory with her ex before me came back to her. She said becos of him then she broke up with him.

She finally admitted to my spy that we were together knows that i still love her and i care alot for him.
My spy asked her why she wouldnt want to patch up with me today
1) Her mother didnt like university student and thinks her daughter doesnt match me
2) She thinks i still love my ex more than her which is definately not true.

and during evening time i think she went to look for that ex before me.

Now i dunno why she is inviting my friend out today and when my friend asked whether i can come along, she said yes too and she even invite all my close friend out. I dunno wat she is up to now when in the first place just yesterday she said she got NOTHING to say to my that friend tt y she didnt want to come out with us last nite but why does she have to invite my friend today ?
Need advice from all bro n sis here.

Devil1976 SG

Your thoughts are kinda messed up. And probably self-centred too...?

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