Hi all, my problem has finally been resolved and we're back
together again. I would like to thank the following people who lent
a listening ear and a helping hand:
1) Yunhaier, your advice is deeply appreciated.
2) Devil1976, thanks for telling me the situation better
3) Meowsusan, for cheering me up
4) Nelstar, for wanting to give me a slap 
Those who I left out, thanks a lot too!