Originally posted by Yunhaier:
If you remembered what I said on the phone, getting
back is a fairly simple task. What I truely worry is not even about
getting back together - [b]it is about how are you going to clean
up the mess you have created and forge a new identity and future of
your relationship.
No point getting back and have the relationship pull through
another short term basis before it collapse again. I know I am damn
fringing` naggy, but then again you must understand the essence of
this scenario, especially when everything you have lost,
returned.
You now
realise:
I) how damaging a relationship could get by suppressing feelings
and wallop into self-pity, only to regret later.
II) How indecisive nature can destroy patience, stir frustration
and create unneccessary trouble.
III) Power of love must take place to forgive and accept all past
& scenario for when you love, you accept the entire package and
the beauty of it is to love her for who she is and she in
return.
P.S: Learn to handle your relationship the right way, for you may
not see the effect now, but surely, it will help to build your
relationship for long term. Congrats anyway? 
Cheers [/b]
Hi Yunhaier, I have learnt many things from this incident and I
believed it has made the 2 of us realise many things and how much
we actually love each other. I will remember what you said forever
and will not let my "zodiac nature" get the better of me. Thank you
so much! 
