im a quiet person, prefers to talk when there is a need to be
for example.. explaing stuff, questioning stuff.. but when the
conversation turns to 'oh, hows the weather. weathers fine. it was
raining yesterday.. yes it was.' etc, it kinda becomes boring to
me, it lost its purpose. and people often go one big round to state
their point, ever talked to any of those mlm executives?
if we were discussing say like what will our next project be, or
sharing problems about our families, or even what movie we will be
watching, all these have a purpose in it, it is meaningful. like
this disucssion, it has meaning to me. our experience may be
helpful to the person who started this topic.
but, many social gatherings ended up talking about things we might
not even remember a day after, so when i was young, i often ignore
such events, or people, till the point my relatives think i don't
like them, well, i was young then.
so maybe ill do some social chit chats when i know this person is
important to me, will be my help or will be around me for some time
to come, like my new boss, not to the point of bootlicking, but at
least there is lesser chance of being enemies.
but honestly, i don't have exactly good social skills, we all have
our flaws, i can definitely write better than talk, i can explain
concepts and crap better than casual chit chats, but i do know how
to back up my flaws by using and recognizing people with proper
talents, such as people with good interpersonal skills, or even
other talents, provided their flaws can be maintained. some people
have good interpersonal skills but their personal life is a mess,
disappointing, you can't trust important tasks to those
people.
well, this is roughly who i really am. lol.
anyways. those lame pigs.. those people have BAD interpersonal
skills and LOUSY abilities, they are just plain lazy, and they are
doing a lousy job covering thme up. i can survive them, kinda used
to it from young, but i will surely remember them for i will never
hire such people if im in the position to do so. and hell i can
remember such things. :p
