Does a girl need to play hard to get?

last SG · 2004-05-12T20:50:44+00:00

aaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.... exam stress....

gerrykoh SG

If I were u, I will talk to him & find out why he is so distant rather than guessing. He may have a change of heart that’s why he is avoiding u. Better to be open & communicate with him, don’t play games

donjng SG

As you said it earlier, both of you are preparing for your exams!
Isn't that the main priority for students now?
Go back to your books and dun think so much!
Mr. Green

The Endless SG

U said B seems colder. Probably exam fever. But it could possibly be some signal that u gave him before. Think back. Did u say anything or indicate to him that u like another guy then? It may be that u did and he decides to back off, because he respects your decision. He also will not want to be hurt himself if he believes u only have feelings for another person. That is normal. He may not know u are giving him a chance. DO NOT play hard to get or u may regret it later on! As i said before in the other forum, just ask him! It's the 21st century already!

BaByBoY SG

Originally posted by The Endless:

U said B seems colder. Probably exam fever. But it could possibly be some signal that u gave him before. Think back. Did u say anything or indicate to him that u like another guy then? It may be that u did and he decides to back off, because he respects your decision. He also will not want to be hurt himself if he believes u only have feelings for another person. That is normal. He may not know u are giving him a chance. [b]DO NOT play hard to get or u may regret it later on! As i said before in the other forum, just ask him! It's the 21st century already![/b]

tt`s rite!!!
playin hard to get don always get u wat u want..
sometimes it may juz backfire and get u into deeper and more complex troubles..
kindly tell him how u felt abt him..
honesty is the best policy

Ogbunwezeh SG

Playing hard to get does not apply to every guy… Some get piss off by tat, i’m also one of them.

DevilAngel77 SG

icy, sometimes guy can feel insecure too... does he know abt the previous guy? if yes, does he know how u feel? sometimes it is not walking away but taking a step backwards and observe the situation.. if he think tt this is gonna be a rebound, he will of cos think twice... thus explaining the "distancing"..

sometimes a love that comes easily, goes easily too.. a love that never experience testing is not necessary one that can last...

dun judge so soon, have a chat.. find out the real situation before making any decision... when u have considered everything and made a decision, stick to ur decision.. Very Happy

cAr|n SG

somehow when a guy needs to try harder to get a girl, he tends to treasure her more.. i dunno how true this is, heard it from one of my guy friends... i was telling him i dun believe in playing hard to get.. if someone likes me and i like him den ok liao lor.. y waste time.. i oso scared that halfway he give up Mr. Green then my friend said i was too easy... muz play hard to get... GUYS.. haiiiiii~ Evil or Very Mad

Devil1976 SG

There're all kinds of guys around... What your friend told you is just one kind...

StarDuZzz SG

I guess tat most women like to feel treasured. So if the guy gives up too fast or gives up after facing small rejection, then we’ll think tat the guy is either juz fooling ard or not sincere at all. Sometimes we need to play hard to get even though we like the guy oredi juz to see how determined n sincere the guy is to us.

boyish love SG

Need? No thanks. If she play hard to get with me, then forget missy.

donjng SG

Ask him directly, face to face.
No point speculating here.
You will only be trapped in your own thoughts and your mind goes running wild.
Cheers.

boyish love SG

Yes ask direct. Straight forward girls i like. I will go direct too. I like you i like if not forget it missy. A lot of rejections both ways but at least i feel better.

ozon SG

im also one of those guys that hate gals playing hard to
get !! wats the big deal! *hang up high high in the sky to sell* *PUI!!*
see how long u gals can afford to "play hard to get" b4 u know it,u r in yr 30s liao!

to me,like is like...dont like means dont like...
wat for want to play game? havent grow up izit?
btw when guy date a girl out...mind u we are also observing
and decide if u r "the one"

cant gals keep things simple?

freestyle SG

yeah me too ..

parn SG

Go ahead and play hard to get. You seriously need to know how much you meant to him. Guys of course like gals to be easy on them, but later you will regret that you are too easy on him that his ego will rise faster than his blood up his brain...then he will start not to take you seriously.

You also should know when to stop when you feel the guy is getting to be sian. Give him another sweet moment and the game starts again! What fun it is! Laughing

Hahaha....hahahahaha...... Twisted Evil

M©+square SG

very very notti. Mr. Green

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