Danisdead101times SG hm...if thatz the case,u beta break up wit your partner now,don't break his/her heart...and this shows that u don't really like/love your partner,if u does then i think u won't be attracted by someone else...
s|nNeD SG you are probably being attracted to her physically… her looks might be refreshing to you… this would probably subside in due time. but if you are not ready to commit and tend to be on the look out for somebody better, then i advise you shouldn’t be with your gf and let her down…
Guy23 SG go jio ur new found girl... I hoped she'll reject u then u can forget ur whole damn feelings for her
WrX_STi SG aiya.. u juz interested in some1 who is mayb more chio den ur current gf lor and develope a sortof crush... but if u make ur decision liao dun regret lor.. regret is alwiz too late..
Itachi SG i told my stead abt it.. cos i dunch wanna keep her in the dark.. i hurt her =( i oso v sim tia =( i told her to gimme time to slowly dunch lyk the other girl.. i wish i can make it.. haiz...........
bjork SG its okay to be physically attracted, or in other ways. But if ur attraction is fatal aka having other thoughs such has wanting to two-time, then its bad. Sometimes, being with the same guy/gal for too long we tend to hope to 'hop' to something new. Trust me, in the end ur heart will guide u to the one u really love & want to be with.
Devil1976 SG BAD move. It's not uncommon that such thoughts might pop up in some of us even in love from time to time (Depending on individuals, their relationship and what they're exposed to?). However, that does not mean that your gf would very well appreciate your FRANKNESS to her... (And very often not many would) Imagine your gf telling you one day that she's interested in another guy but just that she have not taken any action yet and still thinking about it. What would your reaction be? Piece of information is piece of information. When you told her that its probably out of guilt and / or honesty, but she probably won't be seeing things the same way? Whatever it is, you've just caused a minor(?) crack through your relationship.... Just that what's done cannot be undone. Just make the best use of whatever you've got left. My personal advice for now is since you've already made such an HONEST approach. It's only idea that you remain this HONEST and make your relationship as transparent as possible. (which is definitely not an easy thing.) Cause she'll probably be watching you to a certain extent? Whatever that's left if hopefully would not be so much affected and can be salvaged, main issue would be that. Good luck?
Yunhaier SG Emotional fishes. I can almost presume you are at but just at the beginning stage of your life's relationship cycle. The first thing you have to know is that being attached doesn't mean forever. The next thing you have to know is that liking someone else while in a relationship is a common scenario. Unless it's karmic or strong magnetic attraction qualities - its nothing actually. Even it could be, in the end, how you handle your situation will determine very much about HOW you see love and the level of your maturity in matters of the heart. You may like the other party - then again, do you think that she is suitable for you? What makes you think that she will like you as well? Even if she does, can you even foresee that you could have a fulfilling relationship with her? How long do you think you can last with her when you MERELY depended and heed your liking emotions. Do you think love relationship can last on just emotions? What do you really seek? Companionship? Soul mate? Or just another teenage-test-out period flings? Do you think you could answer all those questions, not to me, but to yourself? To your present gf? Is love still present? Do you think you stayed on because of liability (you can't bear to see her cry; relationship went on very long liao, etc) or because you want to be with her? he feelings you have for her... the same intense ones as you felt since the day you knew her? P.S: Don't look at others; look at yourself. The consequences are rather simple to predict, it's the self-reflection and self-acknowledgment that makes love a difficult process. Will you humble down and be in touch with heart, mind and soul? Cheers
Gedanken SG The key points have been covered - just a few things: 1) How long has this attraction been going on? 2) Why have you and your girlfriend stayed together since 2001? 3) What stage of life are you at now? Are you still studying? Despite the outcome, it may have been a good thing that you talked to your girlfriend about it. However, as Devil noted, it needs to be phrased VERY carefully. She needs to know that you're doing the right thing by being honest about it, and that you're maintaining trust by letting her know exactly what's going on.
Itachi SG gf la.. sian.. ma de.. 2½yr juz lidat.. liao......... haiz coz my fault.. when she sad.. i nv go truly understand her feeling, assuming she was alrite then nv chup her lidat..... tt was for ard 2 mths.. and this guy appeared..
Itachi SG bao ying lo.. sianz.. 1st time understand the feeling of "xing ru dao ge"... somemore they fa zhan damn fast.. c liao = sianz
my_name_is_Natasha SG You know when a gal is sad, another guy bery easi to cheng xu er lu.... 2 n haf yrs.... haiz....
