I think that's the problem with many SG guys. Maybe its an
in-built mentality in their minds. I have alot of emotions on this
issue due to what I had gone thru. No doubt ppl tend to take the
other partner for granted as time passes, and no doubt there will
always be temptations, one has to always think back on why you were
with the girl/guy in the 1st place. What attracted you then? Yes,
ppl change. That is a factor. What they like then may not be what
they prefer now. Relationships are like a game that the-Big-O-Great
guy up above designed and likes to play. Relationships become bland
with time and when 2 are accustomed to each other. Like what
Imperfect had said, spice up the relationship. Give surprises,
celebrate monthly anniversaries, go to places both of you had never
and usually would not go to before. Girls nowadays may not be
acceptable to egoistic perceptions now with the higher educational
levels and wider global views. But some things stay the same and
that's why the 2 genders can never have equal rights - be sensitive
to feelings, be a gentleman. That's, of course, the ideal, and
being ideal, will be rare.
