Devil1976 SG Hmm.... Well... To think of it, you're probably in a 'manifest lock'? 1st of all, take Yun's advice... Try to be more independence... On top of that, try to develop a few (at least one) skills which you can master and specialised in. People come and people go... Parting is part of life and drifting apart (or seemingly so) in a relationship occasionally is not uncommon. 1st thing is your own mentality towards it. And see if you're just overreacting or is there a way to work things out?
donjng SG You can count on yourself! At the end of the day, you can count on no one but yourself! Be more independent!
RaTtY81 SG Er.. dun mind me for saying tis but i feel tat u r treating ur bestfren for boyfren. Frens should have abit of space between them to keep their little secret. Every1 has a dark side. Mayb u should start a hobby to spend away ur time(ta fa shi jian). There should b mutual understanding n respect between frens.
misery=( SG i admit that i am overly dependent on my best friend. too high expectations so i get very upset when she cant meet them
Devil1976 SG Things ain't really that bad... Try to loosen up a bit... Just slowly expand your social circle and learn to be more independent and you'll see that it's really all no big deal? It'll be better for your friends and also beneficial for yourself on the long run?
Sir_Horny SG i made a mistake too, i thought its time to bring our relationship to the next level n in the end, she misunderstood my intention, n now my best fren try to avoid me. hey buddy, let us both retreat n take a step backward n c how things go from here
sillyme SG you should try to make more friends it'll put a great stress on her if you depend solely on her to feel up your emptiness.
Devil1976 SG Take things slowly... Don't force yourself... People get tired once in a while in their lives... If you need a break, just take a good rest?
boy in blues SG i get your point. but there's no such thing as a 100% reliable best friend. it's a mythical creature that exists only in fantasy. so you need to make up with many superficial sub-friends each of whom you can rely on only some of the time and for certain situations only.
Danisdead101times SG well...maybe he/she is really very busy...although you maybe very sad or what but you must spare a thought for your friends also rite?
kaypoh SG hey sori.. i juz realised its very rude to butt in like this on misery’s thread asking irrelevant question.. sori misery… pls ignore…
