guidance is a subjective word. while it may seem like guidance
to u, it may seem like distrust, and interference to someone else.
u could advice, but u cannot force, and u cannot be overbearing. if
it was my brother, i'd let him sort it out himself. i did fine
myself, who gave me "guidance"? and the only time someone offered
"guidance", it was more like, being forced to do something against
my will, at a time when i was still too young to know how to handle
things other than to simply accept being forced. the result? my
life got turned upside down. so when i say do not interfere, i say
from a 1st hand experience of being a victim of "guidance".
