Break up sorrows

weeeeeee..... SG

u still need to do so, for her happiness. try to start to let her go, or else u will live in sorrow...

GOiN^CrAzY^SooN SG

This may sound a bit harsh but I believed you have brought this on yourself. Failing to cherish what was around you at the time when you had the chance to do so is the most common of mistakes guys and gals alike do. She wouldn't have given you a chance since she has been hurt by you before and why would you not do it again since you have done it before? The best way is to change yourself not for the sake of having her back but for the sake of yourself. Why do you need her by your side to change? If you can't even change by yourself, then I would recommend that you do not even think of going after her again. Promises made are always broken whereas actions speaks louder than words. Last but not least, please do cherish your next GF when you have the chance to do so. Think of how lucky you are to have at least have the chance to change things but how some other people would have not have the chance to do so no matter how much effort they have put into a relationship.

Just my two cents....

WrX_STi SG

its easier said den done..

WrX_STi SG

bro, humans often regret too late. i suggest u gotta move on.. it happen to mi quite sometimes ago and i said the same things like u did.

but i was told, when gers do make up their mind. their mind set is SET. if she realli breakup coz of dis reason, i guess u better wake up and dun mistreat another ger dat come along in ur life later..

if dat is not the case, or she broke up juz to be with another and cock dis reason out, i tink u better seek the truth reason..

tk kare bro, meanwhile spend sometime with ur fren whom u did not realli contact while in a r/s.. dey can gif u some suggestion..

reis SG

hmm...

can offer u some advice... coz i was in the same situation a few mths back.... the difference is that i was the one that chose to walk out of the relationship.. in other words, i was the gf who was so disappointed n heartbroken that i chose to give up a 6 yr relationship.... Sad

wat i can tell u is move on with ur life... dun bother calling her n asking her for another chance... it'll only make her hate u more... just like my case... i felt like i had made the rite choice when he was calling me n asking me for second chances....

a breakup is always for the betta... sad but true... it's either u 2 decide that u 2 really love each other n are willing to compromise n make it work out.... or both of u are betta off without each other.... there's no pt in hanging onto a failed relationship... u might feel upset now.... but u gotta learn to cope with it... coz ultimately, it's by ur own doing that things turned out this way....

this is not exactly advice... but views from another perspective... [/quote]

the Bear SG

it hurts like hell.. been there..

take the time to heal.. coz, ultimately, even if you would give your right arm for her, she won't want it anymore..

learn to better yourself.. for yourself..

maybe in time, you'll find someone else who will love you enough to accept you the way you are, and for that someone, you'll strive to be the best you can be.. for her, for yourself and for the both of you as a couple..

Yunhaier SG

Mistreat her, never appreciate, equiped with flaws, etc - when you decide to change for the better, she had already lost the reason and will to continue this relationship. You only realise it when you are on the verge of losing her and ultimately you did, because if you learn this earlier, this wouldn't have happen isn't it?

Like rubber band, it snapped after you pulled more than what it could bear.

You promise her you will change? But unfortunately, she wouldn't be around to witness that. So how brown cow? Sink and depress yourself further and continue your original lifestyle, behavior and attitude?

If that were to happen, let me reassure you that history will repeat itself again. Under Love Cosmic law - every relationship we have, has their own reason of existence. She came into your life to make you realise the beauty of upholding the duty of a decent bf. Will you humble yourself and accept this learning cycle or degenerate and run away? Rolling Eyes

P.S: Take this time to explore your mind and emotions. There are tons of work to do: to improve one self beyond imagination. You don't even have to look for another girl if you perform what I asked of you because love is about learning and once you completed level one - level two will begin when you are ready for them. If not, you will never attain wisdom, guidance and enlightenment in love and wouid constantly stroll in circles.

Cheers

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