Originally posted by Yunhaier:
You relationship
enters into decline mode.
In theory lifecycle of relationship - the last stage (referring to
decline mode) usually deteriorate gradually irregardless of attempt
made to salvage. I suspect that you people may have [b]critical
issues in the past that happened, shaken your love and may
not have very-well-solved or handled. Or if this
were the first relationship of your boyfriend.
It's very obvious that there is something within him (unspoken
feelings, thoughts, preception, etc) and he chose to blow it up to
cover his intended idea. I am 95% sure that the thought of breaking
hovering in his mind during this period, but he is unsure and
rather retreat/avoid then to think about it, therefore the focus is
on his work.
/me prays
Hope I am wrong?
Cheers [/b]
No..he work schedule is being fixed tightly...he work fm day to
nite is not wat he wanted..he had no choice cos boss ask him to, he
had to suffer under his boss, customers treatment & now all
these rubbish... he is sick of all tis nonsense. It until the day i
went to look for him, till i realise how bz n tiring he is gg
thru.I realli appreciate he told me so during the last 3 weeks. He
dun even haf time to eat lunch or dinner nor even do his own
things. Sleep also not enuff sleep. But he hurt me most when he say
"I think it a very big mistake, it either he got the wrong job or
he shouldnt be getting back wif me" In fit of anger and sadness, i
told him no, it not the job, it me. U regreted abt me. u wan u can
break off wif me now"
That is how he initiated the break after that.
