as with other things in any reln, as long as neither thinks that
the other is taking advantage of him/her.
from personal experience, i've never had this problem. money isn't
that big an issue for me.. if i have it, great! if i don't then i
guess i'll just have to be more frugal...
if my gf needs money, if i have, yeah sure. as for paying, well
watever goes lar.. but i think yeah, mainly i did the paying the
other time when i was attached, since i was working and she didn't.
didn't bother me, and she wasn't at all a spendthrift. in fact, she
doesn't like me to buy things for her all that much becos she knows
money is tough to earn. it's usually i who insist on buying it for
her becos she likes it.