Men @ arms,
U can tok to the pple here, they're nice folkz...
Ev. body has problems, it depends on the mindset. I remember a
boss, who wld scream @ somethg I'd worked damn hard on, slam files
on the table, slam tables, etc. Thgs weren't going well @ all, even
tho I was a newbie. There were backstabbing colleagues.
My r'ship wasn't doing well either, I almost got married to a guy
who, I realised, din really love me. He din stand up for me @ all
& only thot of himself. Whenever thgs happened, he'd always
twist it such tt it was my fault, & made himself out to be
wronged or a victim. He'd always ask me, "So wat I've done is Not
enuff?" Well, it damn well wasn't. I dowan the extras, only the
basics. So we split.
Thgs were horrible @ home. When I split up wif my ex, my parents
were giving me hell, cosh I din tell them the exact details of wat
happened, & I'm Not gonna start now.
So wat did I do? Did I take my life? I'm still here, am I
Not?
Well, I took a vacation, sorted out my priorities, tokked to frens
& resolved to move on. Life became so much better wif time.
Managed to win my colleagues over, dev'd a rapport wif my boss, who
turned out to be q. alrite. I enjoyed being single & went out
wif my girl frens or my guy frens.
Then, I fell in love wif my best fren & we're happily together
now.
This is so cheong hey, but I think u need help. Tok to pple who
care, even ur parents. They love u more than u think. Sort out ur
priorities. U can continue to wallow in self-pity, or resolve to
make thgs better.
I can't guarantee ur life will take a turn for the +ve immediately,
or tt it'll work out completely. But it sure helps to adopt an
optimistic view of life. Do u wanna continue remaining a victim of
circumstance? Or do u wanna juz keep on fighting?
I'm a girl, & if I can do it, surely u, a guy, can : )
RP
