Originally posted by Yunhaier:
In fact, it's [b]everything about self confidence.
When you are shy, you are not comfortable with your environment,
although you speak much less and become very conscious and aware of
your environment. With strong self confidence, your environment is
merely a place & people and you are able to behave the usual
way you always do. 
Cheers[/b]
x2. Even if you are not confidence, you must also appear to be
confidence.